Is it normal that i won't even look at a person if they screw me over?

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A few of my BEST friends made out with my ex, at MY party, about a month after he and I broke up, when they knew I still liked him.

Ever since then, I no longer speak with them, and am unable to even look at them, without getting extremely angry...

This happened over half a year ago, and sent me into a deep depression that I'm STILL trying to get out of. I haven't liked that guy since then, but I still feel so betrayed by my ex-friends, and feel like they didn't even care about me, OR our friendship.

I even unfriended, and blocked, them, on Facebook, because I couldn't stand to look at them, when they would appear on my News Feed.

Is this normal, or am I blowing everything out of proportion?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's a cold world full if betrayal, and lust/sex always seems to be the reason, doesn't it? Think about it... When you treat intimacy too casually (such as making out at parties with people you aren't even in a relationship with), things go wrong. Society makes it seem "normal", but there's a reason why it's morally wrong. It creates many problems, and this is just the tip of the iceberg. People, please respect yourselves more.

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  • big.z
    12 years ago

    It's very normal to hold a grudge . Some people hold grudges for longer then others do . Why not try and talk to your friends or so called friends and explain to them that it wasn't cool for them to kiss your ex . If nothing else it will give you some closure so you can move on .

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    U r not blowing anything out or proportion! U have the right to be mad and I wouldn't even look at my best friends in the face if they did this to me unless I was gonna yell at them. They're not even friends like omg that's messed up what they did to u

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