Is it normal that i won't eat a girl out if she's not pure

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Basically I don't have time to retype all this out. i had a much more detailed post in the making before but because of my shitty internet that's constantly going in and out it is no longer here. So basically I know what my title says but this actually goes beyond oral. Is my refusal to do anything with a non virgin girl normal. Anything sexual. i won't do it. I mean, maybe kiss and hug but that's truly it. I value sex for more than sensation but also emotion so I want to be very careful about who I give myself to in that area. This has ended some of my relationships but I don't regret that. Some females can't take the fact that I simply will not have sex with them unless I'm their first. Now when I do lose my own virginity I guess that perspective will have to change because then I'll be a walking double standard but even then unless a girl's pure or has only been with me I won't eat her out. you'd honestly be better off getting me to suck cock. Now if a girl's been raped I'll never hold that against her but I'm talking about other stuff.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I hate when I'm typing and it shuts off too. Makes me want to fucking smash things.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I think it's fine as long as you're still a virgin, but if you plan to keep this attitude afterwards you're just a stupid hypocrite!

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    • 7th-and-seldom
      9 years ago

      Yeah. Like I said afterwards I really don't care. But I'm glad to see you agree.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Virgins are really shit at sex so that sounds like a pointless endeavour.

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    • 7th-and-seldom
      9 years ago

      Lol I know, I've heard this, but it really isn't the quality of the sex that I are about on a physical basis as far as my first time goes. I care more about that symbolism and flattery on my first go you know? But this is another take on it to consider.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    Are you a Pedo? every girl I know lost their virginity when they were like 13/14.

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    • 7th-and-seldom
      9 years ago

      lol no im not a pedo. and thats really unfortunate people really shouldn't be having sex at those ages. but im not the only one who believes in this, its just those others who do are outnumbered by people who'd rather do this at early ages. Before they really even know all the meaning that comes with it. So it's hard for me to find them.

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  • loyally
    9 years ago

    It's normal, but what if she gets tested to prove that she is clean? Otherwise, get used to sucking dick because a woman won't go down on you if you don't go down on her, unless shes a doormat.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    You are awfully fucking fussy. But, at least you are the cure to your own problem.

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    • 7th-and-seldom
      9 years ago

      fussy for having a preference? right -_- but when i look at your profile i can understand why you'd be an ass soon as i come across the letters "INTJ". I really don't give a fuck though. I haven't the time to waste conversing with you or folks like you. good day to you Mr. "green_boogers". XD

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago

        Fair enough. I'll save my dissertation on Assholeism for those with quantitative abilities.

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago

    You shouldn't be judgmental about their choice not to wait if you're willing to give it up yourself, in my opinion.

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    • 7th-and-seldom
      9 years ago

      but thats the thing, im not willing unless they waited. the whole point i am waiting is cuz when the right 1 comes we can give it to each other. when a girl tells me i wouldnt be her first i politely just let it go. i dont hate her i just no longer want her sexually and know because of that she wouldnt want to be with me after a point unless she can just deal with getting nothing past kisses and hugs because i'll most likely never want her for much more. my attraction to a girl when i find out she's been with some other guy sexually literally plummets drastically. if i can wait why cant i expect the same from someone else? but after my first i guess i've got to be open if i dont end up to stay with them or someone could use this same point of view on me. but i see your point.

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