Is it normal that i won't commit?

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Basically, I like this guy but I think he likes me 10x more. He even told me he was in love with me the other night. Anyway, we've been bestfriends (with rough patches) for a few years and he finally admitted to liking me the whole time we were friends. I like him, but I feel like I'm leading him on. I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship because I don't want to lose our friendship. He knows how I feel, so he isn't friend zoned or anything. So is it normal that I still continue to flirt and work on a relationship with him. Or should I stop?

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Wouldn't it be great if your best friend was also your lover? Isn't that how it should be?
    Getting into a relationship with this guy only means that you two are going to be exclusive for some, indeterminate period. It doesn't mean you are paired for life.
    It might work out that way, but how will you know, if you don't try?
    Of course, if you have no interest in that, then just tell him and try to maintain the friendship.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Maybe some day you will be committed!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Suck his cock. No alternative.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    I tell you what, you're never going to be able to have a "friendship" with him ever again, because he's now confessed to you. From here on out, you'll just be a tease if you want to keep him around whilst knowing his feelings. You should try it out, it's a better option out of the two, and if it doesn't work, at least you tried, right?

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    10 years ago

    Fickle twat.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Suck him off nicely and dump him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    If you feel like you're leading him on then you probably are leading him on regarding a potential romantic relationship. It's probably not a good idea to flirt with him and work on a relationship with him when you're too afraid to take a chance with a young man who has sincere, loving feelings for you.

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