Is it normal that i wish to be totally dominated during sex

I feel quite crazy about it sometimes, but as I grow older (I'm 27 now) I fantasize more and more about being tied up and gagged and maybe even blindfolded for sex. I even wish to get my bottom spanked before being "taken" by my boyfriend. I have never been tied up, and yet I wish to be totally dominated by him, to be absolutely out of control, to be fully in his power, and to come to orgasm while all tied up... I'm totally turned up by this fantasy, but it's so emberassing, I have not dared to tell my boyfriend about it. Do you think it is normal to have such fantasies?

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Based on 18 votes (16 yes)
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  • A lot of women have exactly the same fantasy and love to be used this way. My wife has enjoyed this for years and asked when she was blindfolded and tied if I would consider letting other guys use her for excitement. We now have regular sessions where friends and strangers are invited, my wife laid out naked, tied and blindfolded and she then tries to guess who is using her pussy. As she hates condoms she ends up with a pussy full of cum. I just love watching her being used like this and seeing the enjoyment she gets on her face.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Yes it us totally normal. You should tell him what a naughty girl you are and what you want him to do to you.

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  • Canadian_Couple

    Miss "C"anadian_"C"ouple is much the same as you. She is a total submissive and the more her partners are dominant over her, the more excited she realizes.

    The problem that I see with your situation is that (unfortunately) your boyfriend may not be dominant by nature and THUS, have little desire (or interest) in partaking in your fetish (sexual preference). Here's hoping that if such is the case, then both you and he are open to you entertaining various strangers that are more suited to your needs.

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