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Since my friends were horrible to me i have had a wished that one particular teacher was my mum! I have been quiet when my family are around which is very unusual! I got to the first friday i have thought this and not wanted to leave school i was hoping something would happen where i would have to stay at school!
I am going through the exact same situation. I have this amazing teacher and seriously wish she would be my mommy. I always try and find excuses to see her even if we don't talk. I always get nervous around her too sometimes, I feel like she likes me in general but she doesn't love me and if I do or say something stupid, that would hurt any chance of her actually loving me like a daughter.
Hang in there. I sure am. I know my actual mother is not much of a mom to me so that may be a big reason for this. Maybe that could be a reason for you too?
She is the sole reason why I drag myself to school every morning and when I'm not around her which is like a lot, I get into these dark, black, sad moods.
I hope things work out between you guys. Just keep talking to her. Find something in common with her that you can go and talk about. Try and just become friends with her. Ask for extra help on a homework assignment or review for a test. I know that it hurts...
Thank you i havent talked to her about it yet but we are getting on more but i still think she is my mum and i might be adopted.She could be my mum because she always is looking at me and no one else and asking me if im ok and if i like my seat etc. I feel realy stupid i have told my best friend and she helps me see miss more but i dont know what i am going to do in the holidays i cant even live with weekends not seeing never mind nearly 3 weeks! I just sit and day dream in lessons about it and i cant get any further in lessons listen to instructions and i cant consentrate. I think lately i have had mini panic attacks! I am realy scared for whats going to happen to me in the futre! could anybody help?
If a kid told me this then i would say...
Tell your teacher how you feel. Then tell her why you feel it. And try to anser her quetions as truthuly and best you can.
You should be able to trust your teacher. Since you do, you should try this.
In fact, i think this can apply to everyone of any age asking the quetion. Good luck. Its normality? Thats up to the teacher.
Also, silverlenses has a good point.
Firstly, you have to ask yourself if there is any unaddressed problem between you and your family? Are you drifting apart? And what is the reason?
Maybe it could be why you're more bonded to your teacher instead of wanting to go home.
And don't worry about wanting your teacher to be your mother. I used to have many great teachers in my school, and to the extent I thought were even better than my mother. You probably love your teacher a lot to want her to be your mother. But ultimately, you know it won't happen because your mother can never change.
You can continue to love your teacher and have great times with her and I'm sure she loves you as her great student too. The kind of gratitude and love a student can harbor towards his or her teacher is unmeasurable. Cherish this special bond.
ehh well my best friend who apparently was going to keep it a secret told miss to day and now she probarly thinks im weird. The weird thing is that im very lonely all of a sudden and well i just miss her!....Well and we were at flamingo land with the school and miss started to tease me saying oh well miss dadida will be your mum x :(
I am also currently on holiday for 2 weeks and I can't stand to be apart from her.
When I was 11 my mum overdosed. My teacher and I have a relationship that no one else in the class has. I love her so much, she seems to come up in my everyday conversation. But she does have 3 children :( the other day she found out from one of my friends that I tried to commit suicide. When she was getting told she just broke down and started to cry. My heart thumps for her. Xoxo
Hey alittlebutterfly-
Well, I'm going through the same thing you are. I e-mailed my teacher and told her how I felt. It was a definitely a weight off my chest. Unfortunately, it's been about two weeks since I sent it and I want to sit down with her and talk, but I think she's ignoring me. So, we all go through pain. It'll probably work out ok with you. Me, I don't know. I'm waiting for the most important conversation of my life to date. So, hang on. I'll try if you will. :)
hello i stopped thinking it after she wasn't my teacher. I still make up stories but now a teacher is my Aunty as most are not old enough i know she isn't but i like to think this and when i am home alone i sit and think about it.
I hope it all works out for you too! I am glad that someone understands
ehh well my best friend who apparently was going to keep it a secret told miss to day and now she probarly thinks im weird. The weird thing is that im very lonely all of a sudden and well i just miss her! x
My teacher is scary... I'd never... want to - to - to - to - ROBOTER - live with her - live with her! Es tee-dee's.