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As the tittle states i want to be asexual. The way I see it sexual urges annoy me and I feel that as a teenager i spend a pointless amount of energy thinking about sexual fantasies and such. I want to instead focus that energy on more productive thoughts. So tell me is this normal to want to dispose sexual urges?
I'm asexual, but I have a sex drive. I don't want to have sex with people, but I can have a relationship. America is so focus on sexual attraction and promiscuity that it drive anyone crazy that aren't perverts. I'm basically on the same boat as you in some ways wishing I was in a world where people weren't so focus on sexuality.
I think you should try having a relationship with somebody to make absolutely sure this is what you want to be
But if it is, this would give you time to focus on more impotant things like your career, money and friends
I'm 19 and I have absolutely no sexual desire. I class myself as asexual, however I do think it's important to have some sexual experiences so as you can safely rule yourself off the whole thing. Otherwise people fire that ever so annoying question at you, "how can you say that if you've never tried?"
I wish I had no sexual desires sometimes. As I am totally impotent, they really torment me sometimes.
It is good but sadly you can't just turn asexual, because if you weren't before those tendancies will return
You have sexuality as a human (that's not asexual), but you don't have to act on it or think about it. The world nowadays puts a lot of pressure and importance on sex, and just because you're not perverted enough you're not normal. Oh please. Not everyone has to make sex their primary concern. I understand why you'd want to be asexual. I myself wants to be in a relationship with an asexual.
Hee hee hee Tittle. How Titillating. Its simple stay away from triggers.
Well, as a teenager I'm sure you're awash in hormones, that will die down. However, having a sexual relationship with a supportive partner can increase your creativity and make you a happier and more productive person. So, in short, you can harness that energy.