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I am married and I crossdress regularly. I fanatasize about being a real woman. I imagine myself being lusted after by men and eventually choosing one to whom I totally surrender my body to.
I think it's normal. How far are you willing to go to become a woman? The trans community gets a lot of hate. :(
I used to fantasize about being a male, but one day I realized that I just liked to cross dress... But I understand that not everyone is the same. Have you considered Transsexualism?
It's not normal but women do have quite a bit of fun romantically and sexually if they know how to.conduct themselves correctly.
I have felt that way since I was about 10. But not permanently.And only if I could be the right sort of female. Ideally I'd be male up to 12, then female so I could go to a posh girls school and wear the uniform, then back to male up to about 21 then female, but I would have to be a very attractive well dressed business woman in designer clothes who spends a fortune on her appearance.
Doctors may say it is an identity disorder or a different brain chemisty. It is not a common occurrance which is why it is called 'abnormal', hence the meaning of the word. The truth is that we humans are guilty of seeing things in black and white and abiding by the laws society impose of what should and should not be normal. If nature didn't intend to have a few odd balls out there, there wouldn't be one. That's my take on it.
Not to seem critical or anything but when i read about guys wishing they were a woman, most of the reasons given are only a small part of what it means to be female. Its so much more than clothes and sex. We're all too often thought of as body parts and not a complete person. Like saying a woman has a hot butt. Or big boobs, nice legs and so on. I can only speak for myself but when i see attractive men, im not focused on any one part, like maybe the bulge in his pants. Does that make sense?
My friends and i all agree its not all that wonderful being women. I like who i am tho i have nothing to compare it to excrpt my own experience. It can be fun i guess but isnt having occasionsl fun a thing men experience too?
It really depends on who it is, though. I think actual transwomen usually have a good idea of what they're getting into. If it's just a sexual fantasy, though, that's totally different.
It does seem like some men don't realise that being a woman means that you don't have male privilege, and that being sexualised often isn't empowering. There's this idea that woman have this magical power to seduce and control men, and it's not true. Not all women are considered attractive, and even those of us who are can't get whatever we want the way sexy women in movies can. We also don't get to decide who sexualises us, when, or how they act on it. I get harassed pretty regularly on the street near my house, and it's got nothing to do with what I'm wearing or how I act. It's happened when I was wearing old jeans and a t-shirt. You can't just turn it off. Not all men are like that, of course, but enough are that it's a pretty frequent experience for me, and it sucks.
OP: If this is just a sexual fantasy, that's fine, just realise it's not terribly realistic. If you're more comfortable identifying as a woman, that's also fine. Do what you need to do for you.