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I sometimes wear terrible 60's 70's and 80's style clothing as a joke to me, I'm not sure if anyone else takes me seriously. And there are some good styles from those eras but some of it is just ridiculous. Others it's just so over the top it's charming.
I leave my shirt open to about the 2nd/3rd button from the top and put my clip-on tie onto there. The ladies love it.
It's not very normal, no. However, that is totally awesome! Do you take pictures and stuff? I bet you get some great reactions from people :)
If you're a girl it's pretty cool, but no, I wouldn't say it's "normal". If you're a guy, I think it's time to come out of the closet.
Since forever. A simple example would be, if a guy is wearing a skirt, he's likely gay.
Eddie Izzard, he dresses like a woman and he's not gay, so do Wesley Snipes, Patrick Swayze and John Leguizamo and none of them are attracted to men either. I don't think being gay is wrong, but it is wrong to assume someone's sexuality based on what they wear.
No it's not. You named a few examples, which changed nothing whatsoever about my post. "If a man is wearing women's clothing, he's most likely gay" are you seriously that stubborn to try to prove yourself right that you'd deny that as truth?
Assuming you answered yes to that (besides losing any respect for you as a person who I can have a real debate with) it would then make me ask you this: If you round up 100 men who cross dress, you believe that over 50 of them would be heterosexual? You and I both know that chances are, in some weird hypothetical world where we gathered 100 men who like dressing as women, 100 of them would be homosexual.
And I don't think there's anything wrong with anyone for what sexual orientation they're into. I joke with people (maybe I did it in this post, I honestly don't care enough to scroll up)
Your quickly unraveling point was that you can't judge someones sexuality based on what they're wearing.
Let's quickly go over this (anyone can join in too)
*Out of these 2 people, which one do you think is gay, and which one do you think is straight? The man wearing the T-shirt with a popular brand name, a baseball hat, and jeans. Or, the guy wearing a mini skirt, a pink thong, make up, and a pink belly shirt?*
Now of course it's POSSIBLE that the cross dresser is hetero and the guy dressed in "regular" clothes is gay. Of course. But being a non ignorant intelligent person, you have to realize that it's much more likely that the crossdresser would be a homosexual.
That isn't to say that every guy who acts a little feminine, or maybe likes to put his wife's panties on while he's at work (they're out there, lol, I had a friend who did that) is gay. But chances are, if a man is dressed like a woman, he's gonna want to do other things women do. Like suck a mans dick,and get fucked by a guy. Sorry to be gross, but that's the truth.
If you honestly believe that all cross dressers are hetero.. or no.. that's too biased... if you think that all cross dressers were just as likely to be straight as they are gay, then you are not only extremely ignorant to your pointless cause, but I'd go as far as to say you're very stupid.
But I doubt you think that. No one is THAT dumb, right?
FFS a guy wearing a skirt and make up and you automatically assume they're hetero?
And if you agree with my "100 cross dressers in a room... most of them would be gay" you already admitted what you said previously was wrong, and what I said was right.
I'll be back at some point, if you respond, I hope you've seen the light, because I won't waste any more energy than this.
BUT TO BE CLEAR ABOUT ONE THING: My original post of "if you're a guy, it's time to come out of the closet" THAT was joking around. After that though, I've been 100% serious about everything else I said.
Wow, that was quite an essay, I must say I am flattered you wrote that much for me.
Anyway, I think you misssed my point a bit. I do not deny that the majority of drag queens are homo-sexual, and I agree that you can sometimes accuaretly guess a person's sexual orientation from what they wear.
What I was trying to say was that we shouldn't do this as, by attributing certain traits to homo-sexuals, we are perpetuating stero-types, which some people may find offensive.