Is it normal that i want to watch my wife haveing sex with another man

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I love my wife with all my heart but she seems to have lost the desire to have "all out sex" anymore...........I don't have the same desire...but I will do anything to get her back to enjoy our "love life" like it was......her girlfriend made a suggestion of letting her have a "one night stand" with another guy "couple" and see if it will save our marriage.. after I actualy thought about it doesn't sound that bad.. as long as I can watch, It kinda sounds like fun.

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    it can work. But do make sure you consider all possibilities.
    There's many couples(especially the not-so-young ones) that eventually turn to such "measures" to re-kindle their fire.
    I'd suggest to try and go to a swinger club, if she's open to that. And make sure you are not completely passive.
    If you allow her to have just a random "affair" it may well be that she gets feelings for another person, so make sure that it's just something sexual. And prove that you are also still a sexual person...while just standing by and watching may be ok once, you should interact with her, or, if your wife is ok with that, another girl...if only to "prove" you still have desires and it's not just an outlet for her sexual frustration.

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