Is it normal that i want to try a fleshlight but i have a girlfriend?

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Ever since i found out about it.. I had been wondering what it was like to try it. I fingered my girlfriend and thinking that it's the same. Maybe it's just some weird taboo i might be into. Yes, I masturbate.. Not chronically, but i really enjoy the feeling. (Of course do it once or twice a week and wait a month or two to do it again, you get a better feeling that way imo)

My girl and I have been moving quite the pace. In my head I still want to take things slowly so i can adsorb each bit of information i can. (Life) When we look into each others eyes, and i swear.. This is a pattern for us..
Everything else is ignored and we'll just start going at it. (Considering the situation, we both agreed that we prefer being alone, ha.. who wouldn't..?)

We're both Virgins and because i haven't actually had intercourse and felt the real feeling.. Should i continue to pursue this chase?

I would love to be convinced on why i shouldn't get it.

Oh.. People wondering our age? I'm 18 now.. As of Jan 1st and she's 16. Oh yeah.. Blah, blah.. 2 years? Wrong. A year and 3 months older. Illegal intercourse? Until she's 17 in our state. :P

Am I wanting to wait? Yes, that's already been discussed too.

Oh, also.. Ask me some questions i'm open to it and i would love any type of information that could possibly help.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    It's not like getting one is cheating. I think you should hold off on getting it until you've had sex with her though. I feel somehow that because it's supposed to mimic a real vagina, and you guys are virgins, it might ruin the experience. That's just my opinion though. Or just ask her your opinion on it.. I can't quite explain it.. but hmm.. would you be bothered if she wanted to try a dildo? It's hard cause I don't know what your gf is like totally, but I don't think it would hurt to mention it to her and see what she thinks. That way you can try it out guilt free if she says yes.

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    • NorthC
      11 years ago

      Oh, noo. I wouldn't be bothered at all. In fact.. Just for her sexual exploration, i encourage that.
      She's told me that she's only touched her self once sensually. With that that in my mind.. I'ma try to encourage her to masturbate.

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      • ccjigsaw
        11 years ago

        Hmm...That leads me to further think she might be bothered by you trying out the fleshlight. You do realize the dildo would break her hymen? It's really none of my business lol I think you should 100% get her opinion before getting it though

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        • NorthC
          11 years ago

          I will, most definitely.

          I think i'ma wait a couple years after we have sex to think to ask or at least a year.

          I likes everything to fall in place with each other instead of being placed there.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Just get one and try it :) maybe buy your girlfriend a vibrator while you're there so you can both be satisfied until you're both ready for sex with each other?

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    • NorthC
      11 years ago

      Haha, good point. I still feel that she's #1 in my head, so she's first. :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    the toy shop , the virbrator and the fleshlight are at it while you two are out :D

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    • NorthC
      11 years ago

      Haha, that's a funny antonym.

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