Is it normal that i want to tell my ex-wife that i still love her?

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When I was married in 1970, my ex and were together for only
5.1/2 years.
While working at a company, my ex thought that I was having an affair with the company secretary.
I WAS NOT!
I did spend time with her, but it was only as friend and it
was needed.
She had MS and was in a wheelchair.
The time that I spent with her - was to help her in her college math and I took her Christmas shopping, so that she could buy her husband a gift.
I tried to tell this to my wife, but I was not believed.
I have recently been trying to get back in touch with her,
but I can't decide if I should leave well enough alone or not.

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Based on 14 votes (8 yes)
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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    I'm gonna have to say you guys have communication problems and you should probably just let it be. If you tell her, tell her for closure and then work on yourself. Figure out how you can communicate better for a future love interest. It's been nearly 6 years that you've been holding this back and that problem you had could have been worked out if you both were willing to. Clearly one or both of you did not care to work on your problems then and time does not change things like that.

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  • PandaChan
    9 years ago

    It's normal as long as you or her don't have another life partner. Explain it to her and touch her heart softly. No matter what, woman is forgivable human but it doesn't mean you can playing her ...ah sorry now i'm talking too much

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