Is it normal that i want to tell him how i feel?

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Two years ago I decided to go back to college. At my interview, I felt something really deeply when I saw my tutor and I knew that I wanted to get to know him more. As the course has progressed and I have gotten to know him, my feelings for him have become even stronger. A couple of times he has told me that he loves me, mainly when I have done something unexpected, so I am not sure if these are as a friend or something more. Anyway, I am leaving in a couple of weeks and I keep feeling like I need to tell him how I feel before I go, but I'm not sure if it is normal to want to do this or even if I should do it, or whether I should just leave and say nothing. I'm 26, by the way so it's nothing illegal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Just tell him! What do you have to lose. If you don't tell him you're just going to keep thinking about it and it will drive you nuts. I know that it is scary but it will be worth it. Just expect everything. Maybe he'll feel the same and maybe he won't. Just be prepared for both sides or anything else. It is completely normal. I've been through it. Regret not telling the person I loved how I felt. Turned out that he loved me too. But it was too late. So just do it!

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  • RissaRoar
    9 years ago

    It's kind of hard to create a relationship with someone like a tutor/teacher/boss etc. It sounds like you like him, whether in a platonic way or romantic way, so either way it can't hurt to try to get more involved with him. Just wait until you're no longer in the student-teacher-esque relationship to do so and start casual by asking if he wants to go to coffee or something.

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  • MLPfanDiem
    9 years ago

    YES! Go for it! I believe in you! Sweetie, you can do it!

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    We put these people on a pedestal and think their something special then when we get close to them we realize their just people like us, they eat, sleep, shit, fart, piss, get their dog to lick peanut butter off their balls ect. ect.

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