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So my boyfriend REALLY dislikes one of my good guy friends. I think he's just jealous. Because my other good guy friend reckons the first friend likes me. I dont think so, but yeah.
Is it normal that I still want to be his friend, even though even he says that we shouldn't be mates if its ruining my relationship?
I love my boyfriend, by the way.
Jealousy us a negative effect in a relationship. It may seem cute at first, but can lead to abuse if you aren't careful. Talk to him about it and tell him that you will choose your friends, not him.
Well he has reason to wonder... I went out with a girl who i thought may have been cheating, talked to her about it an she said it was good so i shrugged it off. But it ended up that she was cheating on me with the guy who i thought, along with one of my friends and a former best friend. Reassure your love for your guy.9
He was you're friend beforehand, right? So why do you have to give up you're friendships?! To make you're boyfriend less insecure? Complete rubbish. I'd dump him, if he doesn't trust you with you're friends.
Your boyfriend needs to drop the jealousy act.
Geez on Facebook you probably have a thousand friends and a lot of them being male.
You can still have your friends and even see them too. Your 'boyfriend' needs to trust you and KNOW that: "I love my boyfriend, by the way."
He's very lucky that you are even pondering about this.
By the way, if he has any female friends, I'd hit the roof.
you've gotta be careful in those situations haha! one minute he could be saying that he doesn't want you to talk to these guys and the next he could have you locked up. be cautious around the other boy maybe- make it clear you're not interested in him- but don't drop all contact with him, losing a friend for a boy isn't really worth it is it?
My ex was like this. I could not talk, text or be Facebook friends with any guy without him going off. My new boyfriend is amazing, he is not like that at all.