Is it normal that i want to stay single?

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I have never had a boyfriend before.I don`t think I am unattractive or not interesting, in fact, I had a lot of possibilities to get into a relationship before, but I never completely wanted to.It`s not like I did`t like the guy or that I care too much what others might think,it`s just that I don`t want a boyfriend.I am not a lesbian,not a slut or insecure with myself.I am actually pretty confident.Are my hopes to high?Is it normal that being single just sounds so much more amazing to me?

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  • andrian007
    13 years ago

    What you're feeling is perfectly normal. The reality is that relationships are a lot of hard work and sacrifice and you may not be that willing to do that for whatever reason. You probably like your independence and spending time with friends and family.

    I feel the same way too. For some reason, I find friendships so much more emotionally rewarding than relationships. I can still give and give and give to feel good about myself and still have my own independence. As long as you don't do anything stupid, friendships can only grow with time. But relationships are so complicating. Maybe I'm just dumb that way, but there's my two cents' worth.

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  • dano
    13 years ago

    I'm a guy and I feel the same way I broke up with my ex almost a year ago and ever since then I haven't had the urge to get a gf again. I don't feel like a need someone else in my life right to be happy I'm happy with my friends and family and where um at in life

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  • GarlicOlive
    10 years ago

    Normal. It seems like when you're single you notice all the couples, and when you're coupled, you notice all the singles :P

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  • Tiff_Fannie
    10 years ago

    It's both normal and not normal. Once you have a relationship and then its ended you don't want to stay single. I was in an 8 month relationship and right now I HATE being single. But, before I was with him I LOVED being single: never having to answer to any one, doing my own things and just having fun. But, when I was with him I liked having that one special person to talk to and tell my secrets to and now that he is gone I miss having someone special to talk to and really want it back. Now, that doesn't mean I am looking for another guy immediately but I won't pass up a guy that asks me out. The right guy will come along and you will start seeing him and your feelings will change. I hope everything works out for you!!

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  • Bananas0053
    13 years ago

    I think its totally normal i feel the same way and ive never had a bf

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  • emmyactxoxcutie
    13 years ago

    I don't want a bf either but I have had bfs b4 but I don't want a bf because I still like the jurk anyways do whatever u want if u don't want a bf don't get 1 it's ur desistion

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