Is it normal that i want to slow things down with my girlfriend?

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Me and my girlfriend both want to slow our relationship down a little, is this normal? We've been going out around 2 months and we're both virgins, so when it got to the stage where I did something, in the spur of the moment, it made me realise how much I value her. What we did was harmless and it was not full sex, it was only foreplay at the most. My girlfriend had to leave after a short time of this and then afterwards we felt a little uncomfortable about it. I'm not scared of sex, I just don't want to rush anything and risk losing the best thing that happened to me. So really I'm asking, is it normal that I felt this way about after what I did and is it normal that we both want to slow things down?

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Based on 47 votes (43 yes)
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  • FlameNewt139
    12 years ago

    Slow the heck down then!

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  • KodaaLynn
    12 years ago

    I think it's great you want to slow things down.
    If you're not ready, you're not ready. The time will come and you'll both know :]

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  • LaForce
    12 years ago

    It's normal to want to slow down. Like the previous comment thats good. It means you both are wiling to be mature about your relationship.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Two months doesn't mean sex. In fact, dating doesn't have to be about sex. You both are on the same level, so I don't really see a problem.

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  • hayleyxox
    12 years ago

    It's sweet. You sound like a great guy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's mature of you especially to want to slow things down. So good job

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