Is it normal that i want to sleep with my 2nd cousin?

I met my 2nd cousin about 2 years ago and ever since we've got on so well. Everytime we see eachother we constantly flirt, it drives me crazy knowing i can never do anything about it! anyway last year we were alone together and just talking and he has such an affectionate way (like kissing my head and touching my face) he then walked away from me and started to question that it wasnt ok that we had feelings for eachother, about 5minutes later we began to kiss it was then definite how much i liked him but i wasnt quite sure he felt the same! we didnt talk for a long period of time until a few months later the same sort of thing occured again. Then a few more months passed and this is where were at now. We've became really close again, closer than we ever were, this time i'd say its more sexual, we mess around a lot and its such a rush because we both know we shouldnt be doing it but it feels so right! i think he see's it as a short term thing, an doesnt really feel the same as me, we haven't had sex but i can see that coming up in the next month..i'm scared that after he takes my virginity ill want a relationship and fall ten times harder, i don't think this could work because of us being related, is this normal?!

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Based on 27 votes (25 yes)
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  • WordWizard

    Not normal. It is insist and you will make damaged babies.

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    • captblood44

      wordwizard and insist do not go together. did you mean incest? think about changing your tag.

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  • PumpkinKate

    Normal feelings, but extremely risky actions. People that will come here and say "incest is best" and all that (sorry, above comment) are people that like the FANTASY of it. Reality is trickier. You will tear apart important family connections! Not because you're "wrong" or "gross" or "weird" for feeling the way you do, but because this is simply the way our society works. You don't want to destroy relationships with your family, they're important!

    Also, in my opinion you should save your virginity for someone who actually loves you. I'm willing to bet you don't think your cousin loves you because HE DOESN'T. Trust your instincts. He's probably attracted but won't let himself feel love because he understands it's not acceptable.

    Love is a two-way street. Save yourself for someone you can be safe and happy with, who actually loves you.

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  • hnbout

    Your feelings are perfectly NORMAL. Continue talking to him, and keep a friendly relationship... let the feelings develop naturally... innocently flirt and touch him, and affectionately hug and kiss him. I suggest you don't force it to happen, but if its going to, then make sure you talk about it first. Have an understanding of your feelings toward each other... just sex, or more. Losing your virginity to your cousin is a bond that can last forever... Incest is Best! Good luck, and keep us posted on how things go. Go For It!

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  • RubyCane

    Feelings are 100% Normal and noone is able to judge you about that... Also, "2nds" are not directly blood-related to you so, it's no big deal having a sexual relationship... BUT... YOU HAVE TO KEEP IT SEXUAL AND NOT EMOTIONAL!!! Cause people like your family etc will not accept it as liberately as me, they will find it inapropriate and they will do everything to take you down. Life is so f*ckin unfair in many situations... I've had sex with 2 second cousins, with the first one was just sex, raw meat, but with the other one we fell in love with each other and you DON'T wanna hear that story, believe me! We got in some serious trouble and we messed up a lot of people when our family found out what was happening... So, no matter how nice it feels (I can totaly feel you) and how beautiful it sounds, DON'T LET YOURSELF tighten the emotional bond between you and him! :(

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    • shuggy-chan

      awww, im sorry buddy *pats back* =/

      i had a 2nd cousin that liked me too, but she was gross, so nooooo.

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      • RubyCane

        *but she was gross, so nooooo... LMAO, bro!!! XD

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