Is it normal that i want to see my ex-girlfriend again?

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So 6 months ago, me and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up because it was discovered I had Hepatitis C. Basically I got Hep C via blood transfusion when I was a baby because I was born with congenital heart defect, and had a surgery hence the blood transfusion. I had no idea I had it until last August. When I told my girlfriend about it, she freaked out and left me. She said some really mean things to me and just broke it off. Now I am currently seeing someone else who is more understanding about my Hep C, and we're both very careful when we have sex. But for some reason, I can't help but miss my ex-girlfriend. I still think about her sometimes, and I'd really like to see her again to see how she's been. But I'm afraid that if I make contact with her, she might still not want to speak to me. I guess I just really want to know why she acted the way she did, and if she at least misses me. What do you think? Is this normal to feel this way?

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    hep C is now curable so why aren't you treated? The Hepatitis C virus is considered “cured” if the virus is not detected in your blood when measured with a blood test 3 months after treatment is completed. This is called a sustained virologic response (SVR) and data suggest that you will stay virus free indefinitely.Sofosbuvir was one of the first direct-acting antivirals (DDAs) to target hep C, a disease spread through direct blood-to-blood contact. DDAs work in different ways to stop hep C from making copies of itself.

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    • vagman30
      6 years ago

      The reason why I'm not cured from Hep C yet is because my lousy health insurance kept rejecting me. Their first "reason" for rejecting me was because the pills were too expensive. Then their other "reason" was because it hasn't really done anything severe to me yet, so they want me to start suffering the effects before they can do anything. Even the doctors begged and pleaded, but the insurance company still refused. I dropped that insurance, and got a new one now, so hopefully they can do something.

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      • Nickvey
        5 years ago

        thats fucking sad that they want to see some liver damage before hand . sounds like something needs to be done to them.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Your feelings are understandable, but I speak from experience when I say it would be best to put her behind you.

    From what you say, it seems there's little mystery about why she responded as she did to your bad news. She's shallow, likely not very bright, and the relationship was probably imbalanced, with you caring for her much more than she did for you. It's possible she saw your news not as a blow to you personally, and a challenge for you and her to overcome together, but as a good excuse to end something that, as far as she was concerned, was going to finish sooner or later anyway.

    If she had any interest in making things right with you, she would have reached out to you long before now. Accept that, focus on the more positive relationship you're in now, and move forward.

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