Is it normal that i want to marry a virgin whilst not being one?

Title says it all really. I know this is pretty hypocritical, that I have sex but I only want to marry a virgin. It just feels a bit more special that way. Is this weird?

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Comments ( 18 )
  • MadMar

    So you want to have your cake and eat it too. Good luck with that.

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  • casalas

    I was the same way and ended up getting what I wanted. For me it was about keeping things special and having dated a lot of slutty girls I didn't want that type of baggage in my marriage. It may be a double-standard I agree but that is life and in the end if you're not happy in your marriage you won't last.

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  • candiii

    Sorta normal. But how are you going to be with a girl that long to kno you want to marry her without having sex? Hmm

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  • aussiewolf

    no. you are a selfish asshole.

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  • jonnyg

    wow, theres people on this website saying that having sex with their mum, sister, father, cat, dog etc is normal but wanting to marry a virgin despite being a non virgin is abmormal. jheeze people these days

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  • sparkingfire

    I'm a virgin and I kinda wanna marry a guy that isn't. Seems weird, I guess it's normal both ways.

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  • PercyThePenguin

    Of course it's normal to want that. However, if you really want someone who's a virgin, you should at least give them the same courtesy. Consider becoming a born-again virgin.

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  • alarmclock1130

    I don't get the whole virgin thing. While I'm not saying it's cool to be a total slutbag, sexual compatibility is very important to a healthy relationship, and sex is very important for health. What's so great about marrying a virgin, anyway? If I'm going to spend the rest of my life with someone, she sure as hell better know what the eff she's doing in bed.

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  • howaminotmyself

    Considering the average age of marriage is getting closer to 30- you are asking for some very frustrated females. No one wants that.

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  • Bigbrother92

    It's not normal. But I will marry a virgin and be one. I just feel it's mean?

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  • TyLee

    This is really normal!!!

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  • darkprince

    that is pretty selfish..

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  • GothBabe

    You are such a hypocrite! Why should you get to be loose but whoever you marry can't?!

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  • sexinessboi

    You're just selfish.

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  • a215

    haha good luck with that

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  • BoredGuy

    I probly wont get married as i don't believe in the institution, but if i ever would, i would wanna be her first, but there is no way in hell she is gonna stay a virgin till the wedding night :P

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  • dappled

    I can understand why you want to, even though it's not really my preference. And it's fine, as long as you don't settle for someone you don't really like just because she's a virgin, and let the potential love of your life slip through your fingers just because she's lived a little.

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  • Inspector019

    Psycho!

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