Is it normal that i want to lose my virginity to a guy

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I met this guy online who happens to be 19. We arranged to have sex at a hotel & shit, but this would be my 1st time losing my virginity to anyone. Im a little scared b/c of all the shit they say about gay sex & it being wrong, & going to hell. But I just wanna try it. He told me I didn't have to do it if I want. But then what if I have sex w/ him & get emotionally attached & he move my ass to the side like I'm nothing of importance? What would you do in my situation. I need advice, PRONTO!

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    If you straight I don't think you would want to lose it to a girl a girl cause in my eyes you can't be a guy/women till 21/22

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I feel like vomiting..

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh that is so safe.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    It's okay to be gay. There's nothing wron with you.

    BUT! Losing it to a guy over the internet? No. That's a horrible idea! "We don't have to do anything you don't want to" sounds like that guy that took advantage of me fresh out of highschool Get in a relationship.

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  • anarchy-is-glory
    12 years ago

    Gay sex is as good as hetero sex.

    Gay is not a sin. Do you think god wants you to be unhappy?
    I'm a bi-curious guy. I have a girlfriend and I have had sex(oral lol) with both genders. Love both. I just don't think I'm bisexual because I like man as friends and not in a more personal relationship.

    Keep it safe, you don't know him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      We talk almost everyday though. I know what he looks like etc etc. Im just wondering if losing my virginity to a guy the right thing to do ya know?

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      • anarchy-is-glory
        12 years ago

        I said safe because of STD's. And you have to let go of those restraints that keep you from being fully happy of what you are. A human capable of choosing your own sexuality and happiness.
        Think about it.

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