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I don't want to be considered a slut, but sometimes I just wanna have sex so I can know what it feels like. I don't wanna lose it to a random person yet I don't feel like waiting for marriage or anything like that.
Story of my life. But really, I'd say just find a friend you feel comfortable with and see if he/she feels the same.
I don't think this is a good idea. You should wait for that special person who will hopefully make your first time a very good time.
There is nothing wrong with being curious. It does not make you a slut.
Sometimes, there isn't any point waiting for 'that someone special' because the truth is, you will be waiting a long time! And the people that wait for 'the special person' have ridiculously high standards. No body is perfect. The first person you have sex with will probably let you down because that is life. But we get over it. So if you want to get it over with then I suggest you find someone you know you can trust, know well, comfortable with but with no risk of emotional attachment to them.
I was 16 when I wanted to get my first time sex over with. I was ready and I was very curious. Three years later I still do not have any regrets.
Just wait till you have a boyfriend/girlfriend that you feel comfortable with :) You're not necessarily missing much lol
Don't do it!!!! It's so incredibly special, save it for later. You'll know when. in the meantime, get yourself a few sex toys and masturbate like crazy. Give blow jobs, take it up your ass if necessary. Just keep a cock out of your little pussy until you're ready.
Yes. I did the same thing. I ended up losing my virginity at 16 with some randomer. I wont lie it was painful and I felt used. I wasn't emotionally ready but then I don't think you're ever truly ready for your first sexual experience as you're going into the unknown. Only have sex when it feels right for you. It is your body, your decision and your rules. Do not let anyone tell you any different. x
Talk to your non virgin friends and see who they had sex with and find out who will give it to u the best and know what hes doing
It is normal but not a good idea. I would say make it special. If you have a boyfriend you really love you can just do it with him if not wait for the right person.
if you want to break your hymen just cause you still have one then get you a dildo and spread those legs and push that dildo right up in that pussy and you will break that hymen. it might save embarrassment later on that you still have your cherry but i like to find woman that still have their cherries intact so i get the privilege of popping that cherry. it feels good to a man to pop a woman's cherry. i know, i have had 5 in my lifetime and each time i can feel my cock pushing thru that hymen and it feels so good around the head of the cock when it pops. if you just want it gone, i can help you for sure but on the other hand if you dont want to go to that trouble, use your finger and push it up you pussy and maybe your finger is long enough to do the job. again, i would feel privileged if you would let me pop your cherry and i will be very gentle!! you would love it!!
Just do it when you feel ready, not b/c you feel forced or pressured. I was with my boyfriend who I loved for a little under a year (we were together for 3 total) and I asked him if we could do it.
I have no regrets because I did it when I felt like it and even though we aren't together anymore I can still look back and say I did it on my terms.
By the way I lost it at 19 and discovered that I am a bit of a closet kink. If you're also concerned about waiting too long, trust me it's never too late. I have one friend who at 27 is still a virgin and she has handcuffs and whips under her bed. She said "When I do have sex I'd like to use them" so if you're a kink, it'll come out when it's meant to
Congrats, you are in the curious stage. I am there too, and though I'm with a guy who has sworn we won't have sex, we're doing other pleasurable things. This is a guy I wanted to lose at least something with, and many times we have been close to having sex, but it comes down to our virtues. We have them, some don't. But it looks like you want to still lose it with someone you like. So at least wait for that person. And in the meantime, though it may not feel even a tenth as good as sex, just masturbate.
I had sex with a friend to get it over with and I regret it. It was just weird and awkward. The next guy I had sex with I loved and its was so much better. I wish he would have been my first, but its okay because he'll be my last. We've been married now for 13 years.
normal! I would say go buy a hooker. I assume you are a women though so might be harder finding a man.
Thats what I did and it worked out actually. I just wanted to get it over with before I went to college but 2 years later I ended up with him. Kinda weird how shit happens.
almost...everyone I know had the worst exp. the first time they had sex. If you have a close friend who you like and love...has a friend. Then ask them to do this for you. It sounds so stupid and almost simple, but I wish that is what I would of done. Sex is fun, Sex brings two people together, Sex is relaxing, Sex frees you. If you can find someone who you can totally trust and if you have to just get this Virginity thing out of the way, then find someone I describe from above. Or take a chance and wait for the right person. Life is short, but you have to be the one who lives it.