Is it normal that i want to lie about this?

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Ok well, my sister is 13 1/2 and wanted to know if its normal that she wants to lie to our parents about a first kiss. Shes never had it, but feels socially rejected my it. So What she wants to do is tell people yes shes had her first kiss, and if the subject comes up with out parents, just say she had forgotten about it. I seriously jave no idea what to respond to ot.

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  • YouKnowWho
    10 years ago | pl

    I guess that's common in the hideous world we live in today, but it's not normal. Don't let her do that, try to make her understand that there's nothing wrong with not having had her first kiss, or talk to your parents so they can tell her that it's okay not to be an oversexed whore like her friends who reject her.

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  • EdgeFencer
    10 years ago

    I actually like the feeling of being all innocent with the fact that I've never done anything with a girl. So I just tell people how much of a virgin I am with pride when ever they ask me :P

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  • 3rdXsTheCharm
    10 years ago

    Awe. No need to lie about such a thing. Everyone goes at their own pace and you don't need to rush into such a thing. No lie =]

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    That's pathetic!

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    Wait...The title says YOU want to lie, but the story says your SISTER?

    Anyway, yeah it's normal. Teens lie all the time about what they've done with the opposite sex to appear cooler or more normal than they think they are. And then grow up, look back and feel embarrassed they placed so much importance on such a trivial thing.

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  • Abend_zersetzen_mich
    10 years ago

    13 year olds should not be using IIN!

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    • DaddysBlondeGirl
      8 years ago

      Agree!

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    I'm surprised with kids these days that she feels rejected for not being kissed yet. I hear of 14 year old girls feeling rejected for not having sex yet.

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    • RoseIsabella
      10 years ago

      Nasty little things.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    10 years ago

    What the fuck

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      I jave no iidea ot

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Why does your title contradict your story? In this day and age, young people are often rushed into things they aren't ready for. Then, their peers further worsen things by labelling them. It's fucking ridiculous and it needs to stop.

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  • Isabella80s
    10 years ago

    She's feeling peer pressure - we've all been there in one way or another. Try reassuring her that it's no big deal. Sounds like she's over concerned of what people think of her - normal for a 13 year old!

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  • piccray
    10 years ago

    Kissings really not a big deal...
    I had my first kiss in college (freshmen year) and it was the worst experience ever.

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