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I have feeling for my FWB. I know I should get out of it, but I am not read to leave him yet. I know there is this car parked in front of his house about 3 nights a week. I think a girl drives that car. When he is with that person, he would not really reply to my text. Should I ask him about the car?
The justifications to feel you are owed an explanation are:
a) You're concerned you might be the 'other woman', and he is cheating on somebody who is more than another FWB. Most people don't like the idea that they are the unknowing accomplice in some shady thing.
b) You're concerned for your sexual health. Is this other girl clean? Is he sleeping with many partners and not getting a regular check-up? Could you end up getting sick because of him?
Reasons that aren't justifications:
a) You are jealous. NSA FWB - you don't owe him sexual loyalty and he doesn't owe you sexual loyalty. They're usually the conditions. If you want strings attached, you have to mention them - preferably early on.
Unfortunately you've fallen for your FWB, this means the situation is more difficult. Remember, you have no right or claim over him. If you want to be in a monogamous relationship with him, you should tell him how you feel, and ask him if he's interested in being exclusive. If you are rejected, you should cease the friendship with benefits situation immediately.
The whole point of fwb is to have no real commitment. Don't ask him about others.
Fucking hell everytime you bloody girls can't help but develop feelings and you wreck the entire deal.
FWB ?
What is that i dont even?
Fried Water Balloons?
Fish With Batter?
Fat White Brother?
Fed Wellington Boots?
So then that friends with benefits thing is working out really well for you, huh?