Is it normal that i want to keep the number of the wife?

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I was dating a married man for some months, please don't hate, the relatipnshiop is over, after that the wife knew it I don't know why and started texting me on whatsapp (free texting app)and she put a picture of them together, she's the wife, she can. But I feel if I block her she's going to feel she 'won', but this is not good for my mental health. What should I do?

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  • kelili
    11 years ago | pl

    Block her. There's no winning or losing. There's just a jerk beetween you two who's having fun watching the cat fight. This woman is probably broken and she is reacting like a teenager. I feel bad for her. Cross this couple out of your life, you'll feel better.

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    • Justsomejerk
      11 years ago | pl

      That was uncalled for. I am hurt and offended.

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    • redoctober
      11 years ago

      I love you

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    Cut all ties from them and start fresh :)

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I also wanted to add that it takes a big person to know when to walk away from a situation. The irony of it is that it's easier to stay in that crap situation than to leave it. Therefore making you much more strong and admirable for leaving!

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  • abs
    11 years ago

    Delete her number you will not see her photo..i use whatsapp everyday all the day by the way:p

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Block her. There's no need to keep feeding the fire.

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  • Omgeeipooped
    11 years ago

    Well maybe you shouldn't of gone after a married man you shlaggggggg

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  • kingsleycrowne
    11 years ago

    this sort of stuff weighs heavy on oneself. I would advise you to let it go.

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  • Bandaid419
    11 years ago

    She actually won when you started dating her husband. Because you were doomed from the start for your lack of loyalty to marriage and when you do get married yourself you will find this relationship will still haunt you with insecurities in your marriage. So if I were you, I would drop the contact and let go of it while you can.
    Redeem yourself by letting her take home the trophy, she is insane for wanting it, and you are wrong for not wanting her to have it.
    Take care

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  • Sog
    11 years ago

    She did win. That makes you a loser.

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    • Darkoil
      11 years ago

      She won what exactly?

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    This is why its bad karma to date a married man.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Ok you are cheating with him on his married wife. She knows that already and is making you feel bad. You are the loser here for being a cheating slut. How do you know he is really not with her? Did he file any divorce papers? If not he is probobly lying and the wife is pissed some bitch gets her husband on the weekends. So stop being a slut and maybe you will not have this problem. I hate cheaters.

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  • Sove
    11 years ago

    Thts kinda hot lol

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Ask for a menage a trois. As bob marley said, don't worry, be happy. And suck my dick

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  • ericg86
    11 years ago

    Your probably really hot can I get ur email

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    You all should just have a threesome.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Oh right i see if a woman dates a married man she's a fucking hero and if a man dates a married woman he's a fucking scumbag.

    Fuck you you cheating whores your all as bad as each other.

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago | pl

      I don't think anybody here is saying she's a hero, though.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      11 years ago

      I definitely don't agree with this. But cheating (wrong and hurtful as it may be) usually implies that there's something going wrong in the relationship. Not saying whether it's the cheater or the cheatee's fault, but speaking from a psychological standpoint there's usually a reason, lack of communication, intimacy, problems at home, long term disagreements getting in the way of the relationship... it's not as simple as "victim and scumbag". Sometimes it is. But oftentimes it's a huge symptom of an underlying problem.

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    • Energy
      11 years ago

      And us men are also whores. And as bad as them.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        11 years ago

        Yeah all the whores that cheat i didn't make it exclusive to men or women.

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    • Short&2thepoint
      11 years ago

      Haven't you heard? If a man cheats on a woman, it's obviously his fault. If a woman cheats on a man, once again, it's obviously his fault.

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  • Lady22
    11 years ago

    Why would you do that? If he does it with you. He's gunna do it to you!

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    What's more important! Your pride or you happiness? Grow some lady balls and do what has to be done. Block her and get on with your life!

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  • solytis
    11 years ago

    you didn't knew he was married?

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