Is it normal that i want to ignore my best friend so she notices me?

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So this is related to my previous post about my best friend...Since the last conversation we've hardly spoke, but I've tried to talk to her and she brushes me off so I just reciprocated but now we've basically switched positions but I think she's just trying to go back to how we used to be..but I'm not sure that I can cope with just being friends while she goes out with guys etc? Is this normal? Am I just being selfish? It's so hard, when I was trying to get her attention she never answered my questions and just replied in round a bout ways. Now I'm ignoring her in a hope that she'll try talk to me? Is this just desperate? Ah, please help - and again, is this normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm in the same position as well. I always seem to be the one that always wins. If I ignore my friends for any reason, they always come to ME. For once I'd actually like to lose... I feel too spoiled and weird...! So... Yes, it's normal :D

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    I'm in the same kind of situation, I tried to ignore my best friend and I thought I was doing well until she "seemed" to be hurt by my ignoring her. So I ended up apologizing and right back to square one. Stay strong, keep trying it out. I was told this piece of advice and I think it works, "if she comes back it was meant to be, if not it's a hell of alot easier to move on"

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  • girlboy
    12 years ago

    I had that same experience, but it always ends up me apologizing to her. I can't risk losing her. Though I tried to ignore her so that she'll notice me, if she still doesn't notice me for a week or more, I would end up calling her or going straight to her house. Funny, but true..! (^_^) It's normal, I think.

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  • MakienzyGirl11
    12 years ago

    Maybe she is P.M.S-ing

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    maybe thats what she wants

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