Is it normal that i want to have sex with my wife so often

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Hi
This is about major feelings of guilt.
Let me explain.
I just can't keep my hands off my wife, we have been together 17 years and over the last 10 or so I just have so many fantasies involving me and her. I tell her about them all the time and she is very happy with it all. She works in an office and wears a skirt suit which make me mad with desire. Sometimes i will pick her up from work and I just want to dive in the back of the car with her. We have done this on occasion but afterwards I get this tremendous feeling of guilt like I have corrupted her in some way, even tho she gets horny about it too. One time we stopped for a meal at a roadside cafe after work and I dared her to go into the toilets with me and have sex ina cubicle (it was quiet at the time) so we did this and I was mad horny, lasted about 1 minute. We do a lot of stuff like that but I feel like I shouldn't be talking her into this sort of thing and then doing it because as I say, I feel so guilty afterwards but then the next day I'm horny as ever. Some nights she will dress up really sexy, stockings, suspenders etc and we go for a drive to find somewhere to have sex up against a tree, behind a bush etc. So, please help me, is this ok?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • Echoes
    13 years ago

    Corrupted her?! What the hell is that supposed to mean?

    So you taught her what you think only sluts and unfaithful wives do and now you're worried that she might start doing that with other men?

    Apparently you love each other, have a wonderful marriage and an amazing sex life. Trust me, with your sex (over)drive I don't think she'll be looking out for other men to satisfy her sexual needs. So if I were you, I would trust my wife a little more and treasure the life we have.

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  • JanHertog
    12 years ago

    I'm just as lucky, same wife for 20 years and our sex life is still s good as when we were young. I love it hen he dress's up. Your wife obviously loves you and I think your not giving her credit for being a well djusted normal person, she can also say no....stop being paranoid and enjoy

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  • ennui
    13 years ago

    Your wife is so lucky. Some guys do feel guilt about their sexual impulses in some contexts but in this case guilt seems completely unnecessary.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    *are

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Wut.

    The fact you only fantasize about your woman is a rarity in itself. Most men ate pigs and feel the need to watch porn or think of other women when horny. Be glad your woman has a decent husband.

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  • ferry
    13 years ago

    thanks, I needed that feedback, I feel better every time i read those comments and have done so about 10 times now

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime
    13 years ago

    has it occurred to you that your wife has a mind of her own and if she is enjoying this kind of stuff then you should be happy that you dont have to hide it from her or even cheat on her with another woman to get off on your fantasies. its a ridiculous notion to think you have "corrupted" her. i have never EVER met a guy who has been worried that their wife gets off on the same stuff they do. your a very silly man. just be happy that both of you can still have fun.

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  • Fartyr
    13 years ago

    Jesus, call ME!

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