Is it normal that i want to have sex with my husband's brother?

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My brother-in-law lives far away and only visits a few times a year. I've been attracted to him since I met him, and I think he's attracted to me. He was home recently, and there was an undeniable attraction between us. I would never act upon these feelings--I am deeply in love with my husband. But I can't ignore being so magnetized to him, and I occasionally have fantasies.
I caught him looking down my shirt when we were all out at the bar, and he brushed up against me several times when we'd all been drinking. He also told me I was pretty, but it was in front of my husband, more like he was paying my husband a compliment instead of me.
I want to reiterate that I would never cheat on my husband with him...it's not worth the risk of screwing up the family. We have a child, and I'm happy with my husband.
It's just something that is in the back of my head when he's around.

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  • moomus
    13 years ago

    Yes it's normal, just because you are married doesn't mean you are immune from attraction to anyone else. Just don't act on these feelings and concentrate on your marriage

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  • Tiffany2012
    7 years ago

    I would go for it, if you don't think you'll get caught

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    I would not suggest drinking while u could be alone with him at any point.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Moomus said it exactly as I would have done. I agree completely.

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