Is it normal that i want to have sex with my first cousin?

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My male cousin and I are very close. A few years ago, he was there for me after I went through a tough breakup with my fiancee. I trust his judgement and he was very supportive.
The problem: I have wanted him for many years---even when I was engaged. We are both in our late 20s and he is very sexy. I even secretly recorded him coming out of the shower twice, which verified to me how perfect his body is. (Yes I know that its illegal, but I couldn't help myself and he never found out).
I've read several posts on this website and others, so I know that it's normal to want to have sex with your own cousin. Many people have told stories about it and one day soon I hope to have my own to share.
I'm not sure how he would react if I told him flat out that I wanted to have sex with him. Deep down I think he would go for it just because I know him well. How should I go about asking him?

Flirt with him a lot and bring up sexual topics? 21
Sit him down and admit that I want to have sex with him? 10
Ask him if he ever fantasized about having sex with me? 7
Say things like "You look really good today" or "you're really strong" 1
Wait until he is drunk and tell him I want to have sex with him? 10
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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    Walk in on him in the shower and suck his dick.

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    • Evillittleangel
      11 years ago

      I'd love to, but what happens if he wigs out, say "oops, I didn't realize you were in here and I don't know how your dick managed to get in my mouth?"

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  • BHolt
    11 years ago

    Although I don't have any family members I'm attracted to, I do have an incest fetish and research this a lot. I also have 2 friends (male-female fraternal twins, aged 31) that have a consensual, casual-sex relationship (she initiated it, he didn't require much convincing!). I discovered it when one let something slip, I pushed for more, and they broke down and told me everything (I think they felt relieved to finally tell someone-else without being judged).

    Anyway, my MAIN POINT; I know a great deal about this, so here's my advice. Some of the points you listed above are all good, and should be used together.

    - When you're alone, discuss sexual topics.

    - Hint that you feel unattractive; try to prompt him to tell you that you are attractive; respond by saying "thanks, he is too". Flirt a little.

    - Ask him about his fantasies; tease him that if he thinks you're attractive, that you must be one of his fantasies. If not, "why aren't you?" Tell him you'd be flattered if he did fantasise about you. If he's open to it, hint that you fantasise about him.

    - As you're talking, be a little touchy-feely with him. Start very slow and ramp it up as you talk; sit closer to him.

    - If you think that you have brought his walls down, give him a quick kiss. If he smiles, say sorry, you couldn't help yourself, kiss him again. Hopefully things can progress from there.
    If he reacts badly, say sorry, you don't know what came over you, apologise profusely.

    Sorry for long post, hope it helps.

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    • Evillittleangel
      11 years ago

      No, thanks for going into detail. It's good to hear from someone who can speak with a bit of authority on the subject. I'll let you know what happens.

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      • BHolt
        11 years ago

        No problem. Awesome, definitely let me know how it goes. I will try to offer further advice as best I can, if needed.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    ok that's legal in most countries and in quite a few states

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  • Iloveasses
    10 years ago

    Do you have an email adress id love to share my story with you, I have experience so I think you could learn a thing or two missy ;)

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  • Jackals
    10 years ago

    i fuck my first cousin many time 2 of them

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  • Evillittleangel
    11 years ago

    Does anyone have any other suggestions? I know there are people out there who have/are having sex with their first cousins, so please let me know who it was instigated. And be realistic. I'd love to surprise him in the shower, but that's too much of a chance in case he doesn't go for it. For the record I'm 5'6", 110 lbs, 34B cup; he's 6'3", 240 lbs, so we're not a couple of hilbillies who live in a pickup truck.

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  • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
    11 years ago

    Thats how I wish I had a second cousin like you

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  • TwilightPsycho
    11 years ago

    Be honest, guys, who doesn't have a cousin or two they'd like to fuck?

    If he wants to, go for it.
    It's not even illegal most places.

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  • OswaldCobblepot
    11 years ago

    Touch him on the penis.

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    • Evillittleangel
      11 years ago

      That would sure get his attention!

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