Is it normal that i want to have sex with him before his weight-loss?

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I haven't had sex with my boyfriend of just over a year because he's respected the fact that I haven't felt ready and he's also wanted to wait until he "looks his best" for me. He has recently started exercising and making healthier food choices and is steadily losing weight. I, of course, will find him equally attractive once he loses more weight but I really want to have sex with him before. I met him six years ago, in HS, when he was thin but I gave him a chance and got to know him at his current weight. I just want to have sex with him as he is now before he slims down. Is that normal?

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  • Goomats
    11 years ago

    This whole saving himself for weight loss thing is bizarre. You're already attracted to him. You're already dating. What is up with him?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      There's nothing wrong with him in my opinion. He was very fit two years ago and let himself go because he was disillusioned over various things. I mean, it's not like he'd turn me down right now if I told him I wanted to have sex. He'd only be concerned about whether I would regret it later because I haven't been ready. I do, however, think he would feel a lot better if he were fit again. I know it'd boost his confidence a lot.

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  • Cheet0
    7 years ago

    Well tell him that you are ready?

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  • NateWest
    11 years ago

    Yeah.fat people rule.

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    • pappusharma
      11 years ago

      Yeah fat people really rule... \o/

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      To me everyone does hah :p thanks. I just don't know how he'd take it if I was like "Wait babe, can I have sex with you BEFORE you get 'hot'" LOL

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