Is it normal that i want to have kids?

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I'm the eldest of the eldest of three sisters who's first kid are each 10 years apart. (I know Kinda strange right?) I've grown up with my cousins (close family) and they were and continue to be most of the time naughty. (for lack of a better word) And my family tell me stories that I was much much worse! (APPARANTLY once when I was a baby I knocked down the baby gate when the neighbors were visiting and they found me and neighbors babies in the graveyard across the street.) So I can't help but worry how horrible my kids could turn out; but I still want to have kids... IIN?

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  • Shoefish
    9 years ago

    So you ran away when you were a BABY because no one was watching you? I wouldn't call that naughty, you didn't know any better. It's a normal biological urge to have children, most of us have it.

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  • LifeTheRide
    9 years ago

    As for age gaps here's what I think:
    0-3: Too small
    4-6: Good
    7-9: A Little big
    10: Big
    11-15: Very Big
    16+: Incredibly big. The oldest could be the younger's mom

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    • LifeTheRide
      9 years ago

      But of course, it's all up to you.

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  • LifeTheRide
    9 years ago

    Don't have kids unless you're truly ready for them/really want them. I might have/adopt a child myself when I'm older, have money, and my own home.

    By the way, if you raise them right, you won't have to worry about them turning out bad. And if you have a partner, he can help you.

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    • LifeTheRide
      9 years ago

      I don't really find it strange for kids to be 10 years apart. I was 12 and 11 years apart from my oldest brothers. I'd only find gaps of 16 or more years odd. Otherwise, it's just a truer form of "Big Sibling" going on.

      How many were you planning to have?

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