Is it normal that i want to have a very clingy girlfriend

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I don't know why, but I have always liked the idea of a girl being obsessed with me. I want to be loved.What I want is to be a vital, central part of a girl's life.I want her to adore me and love me more than life itself just like I would love her. I know its kinda a weird but I would really enjoy the attention like I am wanted and needed. Its probebly because I never had any close relationship with anyone not with family, friends. I'm 20 now and I could really lets say "use" that kind of person in my life right now.

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  • BlueReverence
    9 years ago

    Its normal but be careful that the person youre with or find does not define your happiness. If it goes too far then you'll turn into an obsessive or possessive person...where your contentment is based on your ownership, or "right to" someone else or something. If you see yourself becoming that, take a break from girls, and focus on finding happiness in YOU. Not someone else.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    Coming from a clingy girl; You can do better.
    We are a pain in the ass.

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  • Anonymous200
    9 years ago

    You don't want a clingy girl. Trust me. Most of them have severe mental issues and they'll never give you a break. You'll be her therapist and slowly start to suffocate as she breaks you down mentally. Oh at first it will fun to have your girl around for the things you love, but when the day comes that you really need some time to do them alone, she will flip out. She'll start crying, even wondering if you don't love her as much as you say you do.
    That's if she lets you out of the house. She'll want you around 24/7, so if she wants to stay in the majority of the time, you're on house arrest to.
    When you inevitably break free of her, she won't let you go that easily. You'll have to block her on your phone and social media, because she will not give up. You'll wind up blocking her family and friends if she has any, because she'll manipulate them to get you back.
    Then one day when none of this works, she'll snap. She'll show up to your house, furious that you dumped her. It is a nightmare.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    I too want a clingy girl who will tie up in her bedroom.

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  • Short4Words
    9 years ago

    It's obvious that you're afraid to be rejected or to lose love if you find it. That is totally normal. But you shouldn't look for this type of relationship because you can do better than that and it won't likely ever make you really happy.

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  • Eagwol
    9 years ago

    well, everyone has different tastes. however i like the whole close thing too, but i do need my own space, i want a woman i'm in a relationship who will love me, and i love them back, but i also would like her to enjoy life still. shopping with her friends or something.

    the whole clingy thing can get old fast. eh, who knows, i say this now, i have no idea about the future, that's usually how it works.

    i hope you find what you're searching for.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Be very careful what you wish for; it could come true.
    Since you seem to think a clingy girl friend is the same as having an adoring puppy, I'll clue you in.
    GF's TALK; a lot! Gf's can open doors, unlike puppies, so they can go virtually anywhere you can. Girl friends can usually DRIVE, so you can't even leave 'em home, to got out with the guys. "Stay!" rarely works with clingy gf's.
    Move forward with caution, because it is very hard to get rid of something that clings.

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    • DickwaffleTheGreat
      9 years ago

      The reason I want this is I NEVER had any close relationship with ANYONE and I know I wouldnt minde if she was there with me all the time. Thats the reason I want this.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        My wife and I have probably spent less than a 500 hours apart in 3 and a half years. We live on a small boat and neither of us works off our boat. We go ashore to shop, explore, buy parts or just play together, always together. We really enjoy each other's company much more than that of anyone else. But there's no clingy here. Walking down the street, if the sidewalk clears, we find our hands seeking out the other's, as we come side by side.
        Together, a couple, a partnership, a union. There are plenty of descriptive phrases for having a close relationship with someone, but I doubt you will find clingy in any of them.

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  • Redcoats
    9 years ago

    You know who else had a clingy girlfriend? Paul Sheldon.

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  • mystery7
    9 years ago

    I've had a very clingy girl, it was great for awhile, but then she turned kind of psycho, super emotional and freaked out too much. One day she'd want to spend the rest of her life with me the next she'd want to break up. Clingy girls for the most part have very poor self esteem.

    It can be a nightmare. Steer clear.

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