Is it normal that i want to have a old fashioned type relationship?

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I really want to get married, but I really want to please my man when I do. I like the idea of being the "traditional" wife. I currently am working now, and many friends of mine just say I am too princess like and I want someone to take care of me. I don't feel I am spoiled, I don't want to be like the real house wives on bravo or anything. I am just really attracted to dominant male types, the kind that WANT to provide and protect his wife and family. Though it seems the times are so different now many men don't want women like this and women are expected to compete with men instead of submit to them. Is it weird that I want this type of relationship? thnx :)

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Why has it become such a terrible thing for a woman to want be the traditional homemaker, in this day and age?
    If you do it well, being a homemaker and rearing your own children is probably the most rewarding profession a woman can have. Sending your grown children out into the world with your backing and love, reasserted by your being there for them when they needed you, growing up, has got to beat striving for wealth and status and doing a half ass job raising your kids and being your mate's partner.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    It's your life; do what you want.

    Personally I'm not interested in competing with or submitting to anyone. I just wanna do my own thing.

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  • Roger_Maxson
    10 years ago

    I'd kill to find a traditional girl. I am a very traditional guy and it has lead to me not doing so well in the whole relationship scene

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    • sweetcitywoman
      10 years ago

      well you seem to be a needle in a hay stack lol

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    If that's what you want, seek it. I think many guys would be open to that, providing you added value to the relationship in other ways and the guy was fortunate enough to be able to support you financially.

    Personally (a guy), I'm not sure if it's my sort of thing or not. Even if I am ever fortunate enough to earn that much money, I'd have to be in the situation of a relationship with a girl who felt that way to make a decision as to whether it's right for me or not. There are aspects about it which appeal to me and aspects that don't. My impression is that most guys feel that way too.

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  • princesstastic
    10 years ago

    It sounds like you want to be a stay at home mother which is perfectly acceptable and a valid choice it doesn't make you spoiled or anything.

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