Is it normal that i want to have a mmf threesome with my girlfriend?

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My girlfriend and I have been dating almost two years. I'm typically the jealous type and she claims that she is as well, but I have this hidden desire to have a threesome with another guy and her. Nothing homosexual, I don't know why, but it really turns me on. I haven't acted on it, but I will if I feel like this wouldn't ruin our relationship. Would this turn her into a cheater afterwards? Will I still feel the same about her? Will this hidden desire go away over time? I realize having this desire is typically bad for a serious relationship, but I can't help but feel this was. I need opinions...

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    You just want to have a sexual adventure, try something new and taboo. She won't be cheating on you if you are there and know all about it so that's not an issue!
    The real question is if she would be up for it. Try telling her a story, ideally half an hour before you have sex, about someone (male) who had this experience and really enjoyed it and see how she reacts to it and pay attention to how turned on she gets during sex. If she really gets off then you know she was thinking about it. However, even if she is keen to try it,some things are better kept as fantasies and dirty talk and just that. Sex is 95% psychological so fantasies have an amazing effect on how excited we get. The desire will go away if you create something else to focus on/fantasize about.

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