Is it normal that i want to go back to my ex even tho he treats me bad

typical stupid female who goes back to the abusive relationship but cries about it "ohh but i LOOOOOVe him"

geez you females exasperate me, and then you wonder why you are labeled stupid

there u go

The fact that you're stupid enough to go back to him shows you deserve him.

You are still going to like him because you may have kissed, or hugged or had sex. So you will always have a connection. If you know what is good for you ignore it. He will not love you and if he wants you back do you honestly want him? Be a big girl and leave him. Stand on your own feet and you will be happy. Even if you are all alone would you rather be with him abusing you all the time?

I'm the proverbial "Nice Guy" who got dumped by a woman who still prefered her abusive ex-husband.

wheres ur self esteem?

Seriously? People don't know why?

It's because most women are attracted to danger, it's that simple.

Sounds like you need to be in a relationship with yourself for a while.

seriously girl believe me it gets better! right now you probably think you wont find a guy that will make you feel that way again but you will they always do. going back to an ex is like watching the same movie over again even though you know how it ends.
its not love if he do sent treat you good. love is when you want to give your best to someone not the opposite.
trust me your way better off..
if you decide to be an idiot and not take this useful advice than i hope you remember this you will be saying i should of listened to her. i bet this will play in the back of your head.

What do you like better, your freedom or being completely controlled by someone so selfish? You two will never have a normal or healthy relationship if that's how it will be. Love is not a good thing sometimes and it makes women do silly things.. like see the "good" in someone who doesn't deserve to be seen in a positive light.

I'm kind of agreeing with throat_cutter. Although I do think all females are like that (I can't even fathom a man disrespecting me in a relationship) it isn't the smartest thing to go back to someone who you know isn't treating you right. You broke up with him for a reason. Don't turn around to him because you "love" him. Love isn't all, and I assure you, in time, you will get over him, but if you run back to him, that will be hard to do. Concentrate on other aspects of life. There is so much more to enjoy than some guy, especially one that doesn't treat you with respect.

no，that's too hard for u，fall in love with each other is hard，u must find ur Mr Right，if he doesnt love u anymore，trust me，give up，i know it hurts，but thats the one and only thing you can do，and i wish u all the best！

I would recommend not going back to him, if you are one of those people who can't be alone then find a new beau.

why did he let his brother text you? It sounds like he holds no respect for you. I advice you my dear to date him again not because he deserves that, but because you still want him, so give him a chance to proove to you, for a second time, that he is not worth your feelings. go out with him, so he would do another bad thing to you. Like that you will not think of him again.

Why do (some) females like abusive men?

The whole situation isn't normal at all. If you go back to being with him and his crazy family and are fully aware of what they are capable of, you're stupid. You need to put him behind you and move on. Don't try to end up in another abusive situation either.

I don't understand why people choose to remain in abusive relationships. I mean, your ex is not the worst scenario. But I've seen physical violence and verbal and emotional abuse (my last neighbours), and the girl still loved the guy.

I find it ridiculous.

No, it's not normal, but it's your life -your choice.