Is it normal that i want to give up on social life?

I'm not very talkative, I barely talk to my parents, only with people I see everyday on school or people who start a conversation with me. When talking to someone around my age, I freeze and can't think about anything to talk about. If I'm interested in the person, it's even worse.

To make things worse, I feel pretty lonely. I've reached a level where I can't see a couple without feeling bad. I tried asking girls on dating, I've downloaded Tinder and other relationship apps, I tried going out a little more, but nothing works...

Since then, I feel like giving up on all this social life crap and having a fictional character as a girlfriend. I suck in talking to people and, 'cause of that, I'm never going to find someone who love's me that way!

Would it be strange? I mean... It's unusual, but I've already lost all faith and hope

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  • Nickvey

    talking is a learned behavior . i was like you and now i can lecture for hours to doctors, pathologist, scientists. when you are young you have nothing to say. when you know everything you cant shut up.

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  • S12207

    Aww hang in there, you will meet someone. Just focus on you and your interests and hobbies, and when you least expect it someone will come along.

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    • Jegosudo

      I guess that's all I can do...
      Maybe someday I'll find someone as crazy as me, hahaha

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      • S12207

        It might be tomorrow or a year from now, but you will. I can almost promise you that there is someone for everyone out there!
        Chin up 😊

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        • noid

          That's not true, some people never find anyone and some do and are miserable together.

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      • nikkiclaire

        One thing that helps is if you let all your friends know you are available, and eager to have a relationship.

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  • noid

    There is medication that helps social anxiety.

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