Is it normal that i want to get out of a perfectly good relationship?

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It's been close to three years that I have been seeing this girl. She's been awesome throughout and supported me through every decision that I have taken. However, I feel that there isn't much left in the relationship anymore and have been considering ending it. But I have this nagging feeling of guilt as we've been together since I was a nobody. Now I've made it and breaking up now makes me feel evil. Is this normal?

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Based on 53 votes (30 yes)
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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    You're a jackass.

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  • Hornet_13
    13 years ago

    Id go with it til its all flat and not working anymore :D

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  • Inspector019
    13 years ago

    I think you are smart to break things off if you aren't feeling it anymore. Chances are that she is being affected by your obvious lack of interest in the relationship. If you are holding on because of guilty, nagging feelings.... that is a bit egotistical to think her life would not carry on without you. Break ups are rarely easy but always a whole lit easier than dragging things out and hurting each other before deciding to do the inevitable. Or do you care about her still and feel that maybe it is just something that needs some work to repair/rekindle? If so, and you are a big enough to set aside the doubt and give it a 110% try, then go for it! Decide what the true problem is, then decide the most efficient (non messy) way to solve it. At least your not posting some crap on here about wanting out because you have a cheating nature. Good luck! :)

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  • kricket
    13 years ago

    Think about it, everyone gets bored at the three year mark. You pretty much know everything there is to know about the said person. Maybe you need something more exciting and feel like a new person in your life would do the trick, or maybe your life would be better without anyone at all. But the real trick is to discover how you can keep yourself motivated, excited and just virtually become an always inspired individual without kicking someone to the curb.

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  • emiloola:)
    13 years ago

    I would- u shouldn't be bored I in ur relationship just saying

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    I guess is normal. I wouldn't do it, unless i simply didn't love her anymore. I guess is on the person, but look Bill Gates. He is with the same women from being "poor" to richest man of the world.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If u really don't like her Anymore u should just end it befour that guilt gets bigger for dumping her unless u are going to end up marrying her

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    It's better to end it before you cheat or worse.

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  • CheeseBiscuits
    13 years ago

    Dude I've been the exact situation although I am only 16. I dated a girl for 5 months and nothing was harming our relationship, our parents liked each other and approved of us dating, she was pretty, smart, caring, affectionate, we had a lot in common, etc, almost everything I could possibly ask for in a girl, but after 5 months I just started seeing her more as a good, close friend than a romantic partner. I'm glad you asked this because, yes, this is normal, and trust me, feeling guilty for causing her pain is normal and proves that you are not heartless and that you have a good character. I wish you luck with whatever choice you make, and hopefully you two will remain at least as friends after a certain period of tome (if that's what you want.)

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