Is it normal that i want to flirt with my co-worker?

I have a feeling my cute co-worker doesn't like me. I just get the strange feeling. However, we have similar likes. She drinks orange juice a lot. So do i. Sometimes, she will look over at me while in the break room. I will look over at her more often than that! The weirdest part is that we were not working in the same area for a while. I would sometimes kinda glance around the large area where we work. Sometimes i would see her, but most of the time, i wouldn't. Then, all of a sudden, she started working where i could actually look at her from where i work. That's strange! THEN, i had to break the ice. I didn't actually introduce myself. I just asked her for a work supply. She didn't seem overly nice and sweet and all that, but she gave me what i needed. I asked her twice in one night for a similar work supply. That was nice. The brief stares that she gives me still are there.

Now, here's the weirdest part. This is totally Twilight Zone stuff. I am on a facebook page. I saw the craziest thing yesterday. It was like a humorous post by someone. It went like this.

"I waited on the corner for my blind date. When this girl walked by, i said "Are you Linda?" She said, "Are you Richard"? I said, "Yeah". She said, "I'm not Linda".

My name is Richard. My co-worker's name is Linda. I do not know who posted that joke. I have no connection to anyone on that facebook page that knows about my feelings for my co-worker. I just thought it was freaky. Sometimes in life, there are certain forces, if you will, that act behind the scenes. It makes life so interesting. Call the above joke or humor or whatever a coincidence, or call it something maybe more, but it sure did give me a hint. Maybe, just maybe, it's a hint to avoid Linda at work. To not even pursue things. It just blew me away when i saw that posting.

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Comments ( 6 )
  • Ellenna

    You need to get out of fantasy land and into reality: the fact that you both like the same fruit juice and your names were coincidentally on facebook together means absolutely NOTHING.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I kind of want to believe that this is a troll to make fun of someone I don't know or whatever, but the idea that someone out there would seriously overanalyze mundane encounters with co-workers so much doesn't seem implausible.

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    • ODED_OBLITERATE

      Oded here, some people are just like this sweetie. I have encountered many personalities as such as this poster's personality. I do not agree with this post being a troll to make fun of. Sometimes you gotta go with the flow.

      Oded....out

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  • bucho's_butt

    I recently developed really strong feelings toward a coworker. It's not a good road to go down at all. Being in a professional situation makes it incredibly difficult to interpret signals. I thought I was getting all the right signals too. I'm pretty sure I'm wrong, but I still continue to get mixed signals. And this is a girl I speak to on a regular basis.
    It sounds like you're making too much of this thing. Be prepared for some serious pain and anguish if it doesn't work out the way you want it to. You'll still have to see each other and behave in a professional manner no matter how uncomfortable or mortified you are. You've been warned.

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  • ODED_OBLITERATE

    Oded here, to be honest, I haven't a clue what you are asking. If it's true it's not you, then you have no worries. A sign? Nah. Just go ask the girl out for a date. Some girls need to be showed your like for them.

    Oded....out

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Yes, avoid this «linda» and do you work properly

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