Is it normal that i want to die alone and a virgin?

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Hello I am a 20 year old female and I am single and I have never had sex or been in a relationship ever. And I was wondering is it normal for me to want to die this way? I mean I feel bitter towards people who are happily in love and who have great sex lives. I am not jealous I just find it disturbing. I like how it feels to be all alone. I know that this will probably not change, but I was wondering am I the only one?

Thanks,

Loreal Madonna

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  • Veoh
    10 years ago

    It doesn't make sense for you to be jealous of people who are in a relationship cause you said you love being alone.

    Are you tired of being a virgin and you want a boyfriend?

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  • DandyElfman
    10 years ago

    Probobly better off that way. I kind of feel this way with the people I have in my life. I think most people are just difficult to deal with. I dont see why you would want to be stuck with one you cant get out of your house. That sounds irritating.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    you just havent found your prince yet, who will come and swoop you off your feet and cause you to change your mind.

    don't you hate when people say b.s. like that

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    • littlelulu1999
      12 years ago

      Yes, I agree...it is total Disney bullshit....you can be happy alone or with someone....you create and define your own happiness and lifestyle....nonetheless I advocate social/human interaction on some level (connections,friendships, network, support systems of some sort)...

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  • littlelulu1999
    12 years ago

    If you have zero desire for sex with someone and zero desire for any kind of partner in your life...then yes, die alone and a virgin and more power to you....you may hold steadfast to this or change your mind later on...either way remember not to close yourself off to people/friendships/connections....additionally, its probably way more easier for a woman to do this than a man (since they are programmed for sex way more different than women are).....

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Maybe one day some lucky guy will change your mind :)

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    • lorealmadonna8
      12 years ago

      Thanks, but I imagined that that lucky guy would come. And I then thought what if I was in love and then would I want to have sex with him and I thought no I wouldn't want to but I don't know why!?

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      • Shackleford96
        12 years ago

        Being in the heat of the moment and thinking about being in the heat of the moment are two completely different things though.

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        • lorealmadonna8
          12 years ago

          Sex is disgusting! I cringe when I think about it! Will that go away too?

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          • Shackleford96
            12 years ago

            I would think so.

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            • lorealmadonna8
              12 years ago

              But I feel like that if I have sex and the guy isn't mr.perfect then I will feel like a slut. To have sex with more than one person is bad to me I would whether die then do that!

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  • Rufus
    12 years ago

    Don't die until you have shown everyone you know how superior to them you are.

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    • lorealmadonna8
      12 years ago

      Thanks I don't Plan too! :)

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