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First, she is on birth control. We're both 21 and have been together for over 2 years. I really love her- like want to marry her. I've had a desire to just let it go while inside her and it's getting stronger. We have a lot of "backdoor" sex, partly for this reason but the urge is still there. Is it normal to feel this way?
She's on the pill... I don't see a problem.
They only say 99% for legal reasons, it's the same thing for condoms. The company just doesn't want to get sued if it fails because of user-error.
does she know you feel this way? i am assuming she does thats why you guus have "backdoor sex". why not just let you come in here just go get one of those morning after pills shes already on birth control just do it and get it out of your system already i dont see the harm as long as you take all the proper percautions
It's human nature to want to cum inside. It's the body's innate urning to 'procreate', even IF you don't want kids, it's just your body doing -- or urging to do, what it's supposed to. It's definitely normal.
Also, yes, cumming INside for most males is the ultimate release. Pulling out, in female relation; is like being penetrated and just AS you're having an orgasm while being f'ed, it pulls out. Not NEARLY as good feeling and kind of kills the intense orgasm that could have been.
If all of the proper precautions are there and you know she has a 99% chance of avoiding pregnancy, GO FOR it. I've seen guys nearly keel over/knockout from cumming inside. It feels great when they do, as a female.
I've been on the pills for 6-7 years, VERY active and not once have I gotten pregnant. Go for it!
Birth control is used to prevent pregnancy, she 99% probably wont get pregnant, go for it.
I have used birth-control pills for almost a year now and I haven't gotten pregnant, but if she uses meds for anxiety you should maybe talk to a doctor about that or find out some more about it.
I *could,* I just haven't because of that small chance. She doesn't take her pills at the same time every day and is on a few other things like anti anxiety meds and I've heard that can make them not work as well. I was mainly curious if its a normal thing to have such a strong desire to do so.
Can't you just use a condom during vaginal sex? That way you'll kind of be inside her when you come. Will she let you come on her stomach or something? If I had a boyfriend, I certainly would let him do that.
That's... really, honestly not the same thing.
If you were a guy you'd understand.
It's the difference between spraying water out of a hose and filling up a water balloon with that same hose.
Two totally different feelings.
Oh, I see. And yes, it's more than normal to have such a strong desire to do so. It's nature, more than normal.
But, I would go talk to a doctor or someone like that to talk about the chances of getting prengnant with those meds and stuff like that. Seems like you deserve to cum in her. If that doesn't sound weird?