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My husband has cheated on me twice previously. Me and my husband are nothing alike. I have made a guy friend who was just a friend but recently I have been wanting more. I know for a fact that he does too. Me and my friend have a lot more in common than my husband. Recently I have also been realizing that I never should have married him - we are nothing alike, we fight every day, etc.
| Yes | 19 | |
| No | 12 | |
| Depends on the situation | 2 |
From the sound of it, I truly believe that neither of you are mature enough to have gotten married to begin with.
Divorce him, and please, do not re-marry until you can realize for yourself how stupid this sounds because until then, you really can't expect yourself to function in an adult relationship.
I apologize if I sound like I am being mean, but this sounds like the mentality typically associated with someone my age (20), and this is why people assume that my marriage is doomed when I tell them how old I am.
Offer ur hubby xtra bjs to coax him into being faithful .. and try giving the new guy a bj and that way u can compare and whoever's penis u enjoy more, dump the other guy
let me be plain and simple, END YOUR MARRIGE if you plan on cheating my gf cheated once and it just makes you feel useless stupid for trusting her and not good enough and you should not wish that upon anyone
I voted that yes, it is normal to WANT to cheat on you husband.
Same as it is perfectly normal to want to eat 20 bars of chocolate at once or to want to murder your boss with a hatchet sometimes...
Doing it on the other hand is a different matter. your husband is a cheating scum? Well, 2 wrongs don't make a right, do they? You have nothing in common with him? Then why did you marry him in the first place? Not happy? Then why not divorce him now, when you have the advantage of the betrayed wife?
Take responsibility for your actions and your happiness, and you can make yourself much happier then with revenge.
Sometimes what we think we want is not actually the best thing for us.
Nope. The fact that he cheated on you and you go on with this... it's your choice. But it doesn't justify cheating.
We're not living in a fundamental society anymore, so if you don't get along with your husband -divorce him and marry the other guy.
Sometimes new relationship seems to be so special and magical but all that glitters is not gold. Beware! Your husband and you should talk. Will cheating on him make you feel better? Will this help your marriage? Cam't the marriage be saved? I know couples who have survived harder situations than that. It's sad to see people take marriage so lightly.