Is it normal that i want to break up?

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I met a girl online 15 years ago and have been dating ever since. She's the daughter of a billionaire, and I struggle day to day, but live a happy life. Half of the week we are together, the other half, we are apart. She has 2 children, that live with her, and I helped raise, (but didn't raise) the kids into their adulthood. Now that the children are adults, I want them out of the house, but have never told my girlfriend about my wishes. She "sees" that I'm a different person, distancing myself when we are together, at her home, with her children. Now she's caught on, and starts calling me night after night, how I'm changing, and she doesn't feel the love. I love her, but I think at this time in the relationship, I feel like I'm done...all she does is bicker, tells me what to do, etc, but I still struggle day-to-day, while she has a comfortable life. What should I do?

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    No, this is NOT normal, and I'll tell you why.

    "all she does is bicker, tells me what to do" Love ain't easy, man. There WILL be hard times, love is about staying together when they happen - especially when they happen, and working though them.

    Don't tell US these things, tell her. Talk to her about it. Do you really want to throw away 15 year long relationship over a few arguments?

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    • default28
      8 years ago

      Is that why your single, because you pushed through the hard times and made it work?

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        No, in fact it's quite the opposite; I'm single because there were no hard times. I'm single because they lied to me, told me what I wanted to hear and pretended we were inseparable so take what they wanted from me. If you would have bothered to read a little more, I've mentioned that quite a bit.

        If you don't want to listen to me fine, do what you want, but seems I'm not the only one in the comments who thinks this way.

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        • default28
          8 years ago

          No I wasn't trying to suggest you were wrong. I was suggesting that you are a hypocrite loser who can't follow his own advice. "I never had hard time I was just lied to and used" yea that sounds like some good times. Moron.

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          • Arm0se
            8 years ago

            I never said they were bad times because they aren't, until they're done with you, tell you how you never meant anything to them, and that you shouldn't have cared so much about them.

            How am I a hypocrite? How can I follow my own advice when I refuse to be in a romantic relationship in the first place?

            If I'm not wrong, then why are you being suck a dick to me?

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            • default28
              8 years ago

              Get that faggot shit out of here, I don't want to suck your dick weirdo. I hope gou die.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Who the fuck are you to tell her what to do in regards to her own children,
    shame on you!

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  • default28
    8 years ago

    Plenty of cunts in the world, if you want to move on to the next one do it.

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  • fukuupy
    8 years ago

    love the comments, and much appreciated. Armose, you are absolutely right, will talk to her. R.I., I would never say to her what to do regarding her children, and never would. Please re-read my post. T.G.S., thanks for everything...now that's been in my head all day. ; (

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Listen to, "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover" by Paul Simon. It might give you a few good ideas.

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