Is it normal that i want to be sexy for my husbnd?

I try to be sexy for my husband time to time, I walk in the room naked and he doesn't make a comment, I put on a hot little dress and he didn't say a word. Is it normal that I want my husband to be aroused by me? :(

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Based on 163 votes (143 yes)
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  • gowila

    He may be gay

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  • CountryRoads

    Ask him what he wants.
    Or, if he doesn't say anything or doesn't pay attention, make him pay attention by strutting your hot ass over to him and sit on his lap. Then, ask him what would turn him on.
    Sounds like you need to communicate, or else you'll keep getting disappointed. But don't think that it's your fault. It's not. You're doing great, he needs to know how to make you feel sexy.

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    • goodatgiving

      Try dressing sexy when he has friends over or ybe being naked in front of his friends.....ask him if that what he wants......I know that would turn him on and his friends. If he sees how you appeal to his friends he'll probably appreciate you more. I know if you were my wife I certainly psy more attention to you...

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  • karmarainbow

    hmmm... i think this is why affairs happen. wonder if he knows that.

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  • He sounds like an ass. Why bother putting effort in if he doesn't care?

    Leave him.

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  • karmarainbow

    ahhh. thats sad. of course, i have been there. they just get too comfortable. have you tried talking to him about it?

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  • coqpit77

    Absolutely normal. One thing for you to mention: most men are getting aroused by half-naked body, but not by an absolutely naked one

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    • goodatgiving

      Not true in my case as I am nude 24/7 at home no matter who is present. My husband and I both love it as does his friends and it turned us on for some wild sex afterwards. I will be staying naked for as long as it works for us......and when we go out I wear as little as possible if at all.

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  • runnergirl

    Oh my goodness! Of course that's normal! That's beautiful. He should be so lucky! I'm sorry he isn't validating your femininity and physical attractiveness! Does he realize how often he passes up these opportunities to compliment/kiss you?! Try talking to him. Some guys can truly be oblivious. If he still doesn't respond, you need marriage counseling to find out what's wrong. He's begging you to cheat on him if he keeps that up. You're going to swoon over the first guy who comments on your beauty.

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  • doggystyle529

    Maybe you are over weight and not good looking.... Sorry!

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  • I wouldn't even bother if that's the reaction you get from him. I mean, most guys would be real happy if their wife walked naked into the room.

    A lack of reaction indicates there is something seriously wrong, either with him or the relationship.

    I don't want to suggest stuff but maybe he is gay or having an affair... Sorry for that but it's what I would think if it were me.

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  • spice up your sex life, ask him if it excites him to see you have sex with another man. You don't have to, however if he does, try it. My wife gets extra and has a great sex life, many men show they think she is sexy

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    • goodatgiving

      My wife hasn't had sex with anyone else but we have discussed it. She is still in the naked 24/7 stage in front of my friends, our neighbors, and whoever else comes to the door which she answer naked. My friends, neighbors, etc have fondled her and she returns the favor. But she does this FOR ME as she knows this turns me on....

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      • goodatgiving

        Even though she knows it turns me on she also loves doing it as she receives much attention and many complements. It also leads to great sex because after all the fondling, kissing, licking, fingering and oral stimulation she's ready to go......

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  • Mel

    Absolutely normal!!!! NOT normal for him to respond that way. I dont want to worry you, but something is wrong. Im not going to guess what it is because I obv. dont know him or your entire relationship. But you need to talk to him & figure it out. Otherwise youll end up feeling defeated & bad about yourself for no reason, being rejected sexually by your partner can really hurt someones self esteem :(

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  • trickydick

    Not normal honey. Buy a dildo and leave it were he may find it by accident. When he finds it he will Esther loose his rag were by you can say well your not interested and I need to cum some how OR he'll say what the fuck and ask you oh he can do you with it.

    If that don't work kick the fucker out and divorce him on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour.

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  • sman6969

    it is perfectly normal and for godsakes keep doing it he may not say anything but he does notice there should be more women like you in this world thank you for just existing

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  • of course that's normal, he's your husband and you married him, that tells him you still love him, but if he doesn't pay attention to you when your naked infront of him, somethingfs wrong with him. If something like that happened to me, of course I would comment her and do other things,lol

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  • I tried talking to him but he just gets mad at me :(

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  • hotchickie81

    Oh and sometimes guys don't say anything, but they really do appreciate the effort, and I'm sure he thinks you're attractive :)

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  • hotchickie81

    Totally normal! I like to dress up and take sexy photos of myself to surprise my husband with! :) It's a lot of fun, and great for him! ;)

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    • goodatgiving

      It would be sexier if someone else took your sexy pics of you in lingerie, topless or naked......... as a man I can tell you that would really turn me on.
      I'm sure you know someone who would take the pics......

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  • soccer2

    Why wouldn't that be normal? Haha it is normal. It wouldn't be normal if u didn't do that. He should appreciate u more

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