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I've always been told by like my family, (since we're very open about sex) to be nice and gentle. But I don't want it gentle. I want hard, fast sex. I want a man to be in charge of the sex. I want to be spanked and punished. I want to make out till morning. I want rules.. is this wrong?
I dated a woman who had a thing for having her hair pulled. Hard, so her head would snap back. I'd yank the back of her shoulder-length, brownish-blonde, soft hair like crazy, and she'd get off on it. We were at a chain restaurant bar, and I was playing with her hair, light and stroking, and she said "Yank it..I don't care if we're out in public. Turning me on. Yank it", so, at the bar, I took hold of her hair and started pulling, yanking, and snapping her head back.
The manager, who I knew, gave me a shocked, why are you beating her up, look, so, I took a break and pulled her (the manager, who luckily was a lesbian and into rough things) aside, apologized, but assured I wasn't beating her up. "She's into hair-pulling and wanted it now..We'll leave soon anyway" I told her. With a sly smile, the manager said "She looks ready for you now..Take her!". Any other manager or restaurant/bar in-charge person probably would have called the cops on us for what I was doing to her in public.
It, and she, was a bit nutty. An incredible beauty, gorgeous green eyes, bangs that shaped her high-cheekboned face. I'd look at her and say "You're just so beautiful, aren't you?"..Yet, she had that hair-pulling thing that really got her off..She'd tell me "Grab it! Grab it!", even during sex. I had to snap her head back by her hair..
I got used to it..Sometimes, yeah..It was hot and fun to snap her head back by the hair by her own request. I know it had to hurt sometimes, too, because I'd hear a neck crack or just that sound, where your mind says "Ooh..That had to hurt". The sight of her so-beautiful, high cheekbones face, pointed towards the ceiling, was arousing, too..
if that's what you need to cum so be it. itsa normal request . you should get a positive response from your partner . if not fuck it dump them.