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I have this obsessive urge to be hated and hurt. Not always sexually, but the thoughts continue to plague me. I habitually mouth "hate me" continually when I entertain these thoughts. I want to be threatened, hated, abused, and killed even? I really can't say this to anybody's face but its beginning to frighten me
Dude, If you want to be hated, just do something to screw your reputation.
Iv`e been hated on by bullies when I was a teenager, & I don`t recommend it as a good experience, so if I were you I`d choose therapy instead.
Being hurt sexually, or any BDSM, seems pretty normal. But when it goes as far as you want to be killed? This is worrisome. Please talk to a professional, or at least, someone who loves you that can eventually lead you to seek help if you are not ready yet. But realizing this might not be normal is a good first step :)
you probably hate me don't you. i suppose its not hard to be hated call someone some names and you'll have your wish to be hated on but why. talk to your friends about this
Oh my gosh... It's the same thing for me. But when I'm hurt, I instantly regret wishing for it, but then I'm right back at it. I wonder why we're like this. Except I want to be loved... Maybe I subconciously think that people hurting me will make others love me more out of pity?
Could signify that you have a psychological disorder, or that you are a serious masochist. Both thoughts would be wise to entertain and if you are really worried, I would recommend that you see a counselor to sort all of this out if these thoughts are seriously affecting your life.