Is it normal that i want to be different?

I grew up in the family where everyone judging you on how you look.If there is a lot of make up or short skirt...my relatives will judge me right away.And now in church bunch of guys are telling me I'm not cute or attractive.It's just because I don't want to look like their friends (boobs are falling out and skirt is really tiny (so u can see their underwear))...and when I'm trying to wear something they like...I always feel uncomfortable and bitchy...It seems like everyone is watching my legs and boobs...I feel stupid and really frustrated

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Based on 48 votes (40 yes)
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Comments ( 5 )
  • joybird

    Why on earth would you be bothered by what these @ssholes think?! Dress in whatever way you feel comfortable and don't lower yourself to their level. You sound as though you have morals but you can't please everyone you meet pet, so please yourself. Good luck to you!

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  • ygrowup

    Be comfortable with yourself, and the right guy will love you for it!

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  • Tralis

    You should feel comfortable with however you want to dress. You shouldn't be afraid to show yourself if you want to, but shouldn't feel forced to if its not how you want to look. Don't let your friends nor your family pressure you into looking any certain way.

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  • ForMyPeaceOfMind

    It's totally ok to be your own person without feeling like you have to look like everyone else! To be honest, I find it weird to be dressed in revealing clothes as well, so I don't do it. My body is mine and so I dress it in a way that suits me...not what suits everyone else!!!

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  • Tehboss

    dear bitch in training
    you will get used to the feeling in fact you will learn to love it the same way you will learn to love threesomes :)

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