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I have always had this fantasy to have rough sex. but like being slapped and bit and shoved up against the wall and for me to be pissed but secretly loving it. I want bruises when I'm done and to be sore...is that normal or fucked.?
As odd as it sounds this seems pretty common. I'm unsure as to why a lot of people have fantasies about rough sex, submission, and rape but it seems really common. So don't feel strange about it you'd be surprised how many others have similar desires.
Just be thankful you don't have a really bizarre fetish :P
Common in many girls, but be selected in the partner you seek, and keep it fun, exciting and safe for you! Good luck with your choices, there are many that would love to make your fantasy come true
Yes this is called S&M and is common. So no it is not unusual but something some people might have concern about. However it seems the women in this community for the most like being the abused and men in it are generally are the abusers. However there is women who like being the abusers and men who like being abused. So you might want to look into it. You are not the only one. They have couples like this and both are willing participants but it is unethical to give it to someone who is unwilling. So you should look into it. They also have a subculture of vampire ethuthiests who have similar practices.
There are a lot of married women who are abused, beaten and raped by their husbands. Don't worry, you will get plenty of rough stuff after you get married.