Is it normal that i want to be abused?

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I have always craved being dominated and mistreated by a man. I'v also always felt really guilty about feeling that way, because I know that there are so many people who are hurt and damaged emotionally by those kinds of relationships. I remember this urge starting quite young - 15 - I would fantasize about being hit/slapped/hair pulled as a kind of foreplay. Over a couple of years that progressed to fantasizing about forceful and rough sex and being completely dominated by a man - tied up/restricted/beaten during sex. I have never been abused in the past, verbally or physically, so it doesn't stem from experience. I know its normal for woman to have fantasies, but is it normal for me to desire and crave this kind of physically and sexually abusive relationship?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    I don't think you need to feel guilty about what turns you on. Plenty of people, both men and women, want that kind of sex. I would never recommend being with someone who is genuinely abusive but there's no harm in roleplaying.

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  • 5687q
    11 years ago

    Yep, its completely normal. S&M is a beautiful thing.

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