Is it normal, that i want to be a mum so badly?

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I'm 20 in less then 10 day's and since the age of 11 I've wanted to be a mother. I've managed to keep the urges at bay for all these years, but now its so strong I actually cry because I can't have what I want.

I've had a bad past, got neglected and abused by my own family. Went into care and moved out at 16, been on my own since then and currently live independently. Lucky for me, I lost my virginity at the age of 17.

I wouldn't ever think of baby-trapping anybody, but these urges are getting to much. My current boyfriend doesn't want kids for 7 years (he'll be 28) and is currently studying a PHD so its understandable. But I don't know how long I'd be able to wait.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    I wouldn't want that kind of responsibility not to mention the excruciating pain of labor.

    Perhaps you have a strong maternal instinct coupled with an equally strong desire to overcome your traumatic past?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You really are better off waiting till your late 20s. Believe me, as amazing as parenthood is, it's about as trying and frustrating of an experience as they come.

    People in their mid to late 20s really have the maturity, giving them the tools to deal with it better.

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    • MadamUnique
      10 years ago

      Yeah, I think so too.. just these urges are getting to an unbearable point. My friends are all having children and it beats me up. Even my partner has no understanding to how bad it effects me cause if I tell him.. he'll think I'd want to baby trap him.

      I'm actually mature for my age, I don't drink or smoke. I'm hoping to go to University soon do well in life so I'd be able to provide for a family.

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  • mokuton
    8 years ago

    Tip: when having sex dont use a protection. fuck on missionary position and when he is about to come dont let him take out his dick. Hold him with your legs tightly when he is about to cum. He would be surprised and cant stop at the last moment.

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  • mokuton
    8 years ago

    why would u want to go crazy watching the kids. I have seen my sisters raising their kids and they are gone mad now.

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  • mlbryan44
    8 years ago

    Do you like sucking cocks at all? I think your boyfriend must.

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  • Shelbs
    10 years ago

    I guess so? I wouldn't want to have children so young. I don't even know if I want children! The thought of raising another human frightens me.

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  • funnymoments
    10 years ago

    where i came from you can be a mom at any age you want but under one condition is that you should get married and know the responsibility of being a mom ,,,,,good luck

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