Is it normal that i want my wife to fuck another man

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I have the fantasy of wanting my wife to fuck other men and to do threesome. We have been discussing it overtime especially when I was away from home and felt that my absence might be an opportunity since she will need sex. She suggested two guys one an old schoolmate and the other, an old friend (I have not meet or know any of them) . Sometime last month, she invited the old school mate to our house and they had sex once according to her. However since that time she developed hatred for the guy and even get angry just to hear his name alone. She told me that she will not meet any man again except in a threesome that I will also be involved. to me,without these guys, am not sure yet how we can get person for a threesome. Please can someone tell me what to do next. And please am I normal? Remember, we love ourselves and do have great sex life and always happy to be with each other.

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Ugluk

9 years ago

My wife is free to fuck any man she likes. It won't affect our relationship in the slightest since, whenever she's done it, she's decided that I'm better in bed. However, she enjoys the change every so often.

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- mike1982
  
  6 years ago
  
  My wife and I rented a beach home for a week. We stop for gas and meet a young boy my wife ask him to come to the beach with us. I watch a 17 year old boy with a big dick fuck my 28 year old wife for three days this year at the beach home. He had to had fucked her over 35 times the last day they fucked I had to kiss, lick and put ice on her pussy for the next 24hr. for the rest of that week I did not get her pussy Cindy was fucked out. I did get off on watching that boy 8in dick fuck Cindy all over that house.
  
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KeepsakeDoll

9 years ago

It's normal. It's just a fetish. As long as the two of you are both happy with the idea then no harm done.

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- Dundukichini
  
  9 years ago
  
  I think we are both happy with the idea. All the same thanks for your comment
  
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rickinukuk

9 years ago

Gentleman I cannot tell you how good it is to watch your very own wife having sex with another man. Especially when you have set the date and venue up yourself. You arrange to meet the gentleman for social. Once you know your wife is happy chatting with the new man. Give them some space to talk so I would disappear to the bar for 25 to 50 minutes. Then rejoined them. All three walk out to the car park as this is only a social visit and the next day it is to be determined. She sits in his car with the new man. I sit in my car and watch through the rear view mirror as my wife and the new mum kiss and caress each other for a short time. My wife now rejoins me in my car. The meeting was successful and she is happy for the next meeting to go ahead which I wil arrange. On the drive home I thought you my wife's pussy. And yes as I suspected she is turned on by the new man and is extremely wet., The next day I contact the new man. And arrange the next venue. The new venue is our home. The new mum is invited and turns up on time. Part two of this true story to follow (((((((this is a true story and the events are all true)))))))

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tripfun

9 years ago

Are looking for someone to be a regular or just a hit or miss type thing. If it's a regular type thing where this person comes over and your wife and him do it as a regular thing. Go somewhere you do things bowling, race bars, football etc.. you like and find someone there who likes the same thing and who looks promising and approach him. Most guys like having sex

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- urnn
  
  8 years ago
  
  yes we have had good luck at bowling alleys ball games, and sports bars, we choose married older men, kind of avoid single guys.
  
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- Dundukichini
  
  9 years ago
  
  tripfun thanks. Its a regular stuff we are actually wanting to do. We want somebody who will be coming to fuck her regularly either in our house or at the person's house if he lives nearby. Nevertheless, we will try that your suggestion and if successful, we shall get you updated. Thanks once again.
  
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  - tripfun
    
    9 years ago
    
    Have some friends or guys from work come over to a guys night watch the game or a race and let her pick one or more
    
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  - suntanjamie
    
    8 years ago
    
    hi would love to help you two out x have a nice big fat cock and good in bed jay xxx
    
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GryphonChick

9 years ago

If you're looking for a term, this sounds like it could be a cuckolding fetish. If that's the case, you're not the only one who thinks this way. Unfortunately for you, it doesn't sound like she's into this sort of thing. Trying to force her into doing this would be a bad move, and it won't be fun unless both of you are enjoying yourselves.

It sounds like you have a great relationship with her besides this, so not having that one thing shouldn't be the end of the world. If you ever find that your desires for this are overpowering and ruining your relationship, you may want to seek professional help, but otherwise you should be fine.

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- Dundukichini
  
  9 years ago
  
  Thanks so much for your sound advice. All the same, the last encounter I talked about was precisely on 27 April 2014 and she has suggested that we invite the same guy for a threesome and that she only felt she was cheating on me otherwise, not that she hates the guy. Having said that, I think am of the opinion that she invite the guy again with her alone so as to douse the fear she has earlier created in him and after that meeting, I feel he will be free to join us. How about that????
  
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flooshe

9 years ago

The Weekend (a singer) is like that too. The XO from OVOXO, he also likes it when his girl fucks other guys. Said so in a song called "One of Those Nights"

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tripw7

9 years ago

This is not normal. If you are happy with your sex life with your wife, you don't invite others to have sex with her. Being that the encounter with the last guy was not good, this should be a strong signal that she is comfortable with just you. This is actually something you do before you get married, not afterword. You should thank your lucky stars that she didn't like the sex with her old friend. If she had, you might find your clothes on the front step. Now, treat her like a real princess and treat her to a real nice dinner and sex afterwards for being such a great wife.

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poolmansk8

6 years ago

I long to see another man with his cock sliding in and out of my wife's pussy, but it would have to be a threesome with me as an active participant.

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funlovingbitch

7 years ago

My husband has the same sexual fantasy my having sex with another man but never put into practice

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paulrhight

9 years ago

I have to add something. I wish I was doing 69 with my wife while men were fucking her pussy and cumming inside her.

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nige21

9 years ago

Have you thought of going to a swingers club. you will find the people there so friendly and willing to talk and help. Also at a club you will never forced to take part.I have been and they are a great bunch. We went to Rio's in London first just as a tastier its a naturist club, got to say it was a great way to check if you are willing to move on to a full swinging club, Good Luck

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- [Old Memory]
  
  9 years ago
  
  We have. But most of them are SO DAMN UGLY!! Not really our scene... I'll keep the incest.
  
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- Dundukichini
  
  9 years ago
  
  Thanks nige21. I think its a nice idea to try a swingers club probably it might be easier to get somebody that might be interested. That been said, I lived in Africa in Nigeria to be specific where such clubs are rear and even where they exist, they are always anonymous because of our culture, making it difficult for us to know any of such clusb. Secondly, we may also be concern about the safety of having sex with those one founds at swingers club i.e in terms of STIs. How safe is it to have sex with people at such clubs.
  
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seakelp

9 years ago

that's weird

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