Is it normal that i want my girlfriend to reenact her cheating on me?

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My girlfriend in a long distance relationship admitted she cheated on me with one of her guy friends, she said she was really turned on at first but her conscious kicked In while she was having sex with him from what she said. I can't get it out of my head and want to have her reenact it on me so I can know everything that happened, down to the conversation even having her close her eyes, and pretend she's with him instead of me. Am I a sick twisted person?

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    yes, you are.

    it's torture for you both.
    EITHER you can forgive her, in that case, let it go, and allow time to heal the wounds.

    OR you can't, in that case there's no point in forcing this on both of you.

    drop it for your own good.

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  • hopeful_chaos
    12 years ago

    Its not normal, but its understandable.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Lol your having feelings of inadequancy, you need to man up.

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  • stupidassholeguy
    11 years ago

    You're not sick and twisted, but it's not normal. Ask her to cheat on you then.

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  • AussieGirly
    11 years ago

    Maybe you want her to do it so you can let go off all the assumptions about what went on, find out all the details then let go and start the healing process and forgiveness. If you think it might benefit your relationship then that's your decision to make with her. Be careful, sometimes things are better left unknown and you have to be in the right mind set for this to be beneficial. There is always leaving her, I would go with the second option :) good luck

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  • markiii
    11 years ago

    feel the same way do u fantasize about it ?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Kinky

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  • RidingSheepOnClouds
    12 years ago

    Having been on the receiving end of infidelity, I'd dump the bitch. I don't mean to be so harsh, but you need to have more respect for yourself and let her go. Wanting to reenact her cheating will just be hard for you. You have serious issues.

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  • x2o4
    12 years ago

    It is not normal I think that it is a branch of veuyerism.

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    • anti-hero
      12 years ago

      Veuyerism is not a word. It's spelled Voyeurism.

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  • JustinBiebsFan#1
    12 years ago

    i will go one step further and bang her on cam so you can watch

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  • Satchmo
    12 years ago

    this isnt a fetish sounds like you only want this because you have an inquisitive and jealous personality, which can be a terribly destructive combination to have in a relationship especially if you are with a partner who is not entirely trustworthy break up with her now you wont ever let this go

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  • BluntsRolled
    12 years ago

    Maybe its just some form of a fetish? I'm sure the almighty Internet has a name for something like this.

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    • plum6
      12 years ago

      I agree. To be honest I have fantasized about my gf getting fucked by another guy once or twice. However, when I am around her I feel retarded about having such thoughts, because then I want to kick everyone in the face that smiles at her ;).. But then again, I am a complete perv so this should not be considered a benchmark for normal behavior.

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  • ShreksIdenticalTwinBrother
    12 years ago

    Your girl cheated on you so you want to put yourself in those shoes knowing that her friend banged her in another state?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Love and relationships have the ability to make you feel all kinds of things you didn't think possible.

    As normal as involuntary feelings are, it's not a good idea to ask her to do this with you.

    Ask yourself: If we reenact this, will our relationship be healthier, will I have forgiven her? The answer is a resounding NO. As hard as it is to cope with, don't drag the cheating into your sex life. You can't turn this into a fetish, because it's severely emotionally destructive... For both of you!

    If you truly want to fix things with her, as old fashioned as it is, maybe try to TALK about your feelings.

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