Is it normal that i want my gf to lose weight?

I suggesting that you work out with her. It's seems very selfish and chauvinistic to only want your girlfriend to be healthy as oppose to yourself. By working out together, you can both encourage each other to lose weight and keep track of each others calorie intake. Good luck.

babe is this u??...haha jk

I want a girlfriend

'She eats junk food as much as I do', you sound like a prick! Don't eat the junk food yourself, I bet your no athlete either. If you don't love her for who she is then you don't deserve her. Work out with her, make healthy meals together, bike ride, go hiking or walking together. Compliment her when she does loose weight. Wouldn't be easy for her on a diet while your sitting there eating crap

Say "loose some weight you fat sack of shit" after the crying stops she'll be on board.

You must stop eating the fast food and drinking sodas too! Do not reward yourselves with food - you are not dogs!!

You may need to re-learn how to treat yourselves in a different way - bowling, long walk, gym, tai-bo, kick-boxing, any sport, etc.

The woman should be more attractive than the man, period. That's just the way it is. All of you ladies who disagree should probably put down the cookies and get some celery and a gym membership.

How to encourage her? Tell her your not gonna fuck her fat ass unless she loses 10lbs. She can still suck your dick though, no swallowing extra calories.

I would never lose weight to impress somebody else. this is ridiculous.

I'd suggest you just stop eating crappy food.

lure her to the gym with honeyed lies and sweet promises of burger king or mickey D's after the workout

this never fails on a fat one.

but heres the magic DONT take her to burger king or mickey D's after. But still, bribe her with mouth watering food, or promises of delicious food. She will fall and melt like churned stacks of butter

If you eat garbage what makes you think she won't? Set a good example and try the both of you to eat healthy. At five feet and the 125-140 she sounds stocky/chubbby for sure

No, not at the weight you described. Sounds good to me. Might be a little chubby but I personally like a girl with a little meat (not blubber)

Anyway, one of the last things you want to tell a woman is she needs to drop a few. Women are instinctively superficial because they are graded out on their looks by both men and women alike.

i would probably shoot myself if my boyfriend said "lose weight or lose me"

you should probably practice what you preach.

If your living together, make a point of having no bad food in the house. Find healthy snack substitutes, and when you get cravings, fill yourself up with good food, the cravings will die down. That one was more of a tip for her, but you should be dieting to. That's like a smoker blowing smoke in someone who's trying to quits face. See how hard it is yourself. Not easy stuff

You should correct one thing on the post, she is definitely fat, she isnt enormously fat, not yet anyway, but she is fat right now.

Are you fat fatty as well ?

Oh and GMAN, I've seen some of your comments before and they arnt actually bad but you suck with this one!

go on a diet with her >..!!

You both should work out and make the goal of getting healthier together.

It's not fair to make her do all of the work while you just sit on the couch and do nothing but eat your fast food all day!

You need to work with her. Be her partner. Just asking her to loose weight as an individual is not fair. It she doesn't stick with it, sit down and talk to her. She would also be healthier if she lost weight. :P